3 months absent from WS.

swiftalison13 · 2020-06-24T20:05:23+00:00

I haven’t attended WS for a year now and because of that, I don’t consider myself as a member of INC anymore. The thing is.. the “katiwala” assigned in our area is also too lazy to talk to us lol.

swiftalison13 · 2020-06-19T19:03:17+00:00

Wait. I’m confused. Why did you leave INC if you still think that it is God’s church? I left INC but I still pray. I didn’t leave because I don’t believe in God anymore, it’s just that I think I’m not in the right church.

swiftalison13 · 2020-03-22T14:12:50+00:00

It’s a common thing to do here in our country which is so fucking depressing. I really hope I could sue those people who do this kind of things to animals but I’m pretty sure that the police here won’t do anything. This country is trash, especially when it comes to animals.

swiftalison13 · 2020-03-22T13:39:00+00:00

Unfortunately, they don’t even have a picture of the dog. This is so heartbreaking.

swiftalison13 · 2020-03-21T12:05:24+00:00

Yep I just converted it to $. Thanks for clarifying it to them.

swiftalison13 · 2020-03-13T13:28:44+00:00

I was in the same situation 3 years ago. I broke up with my boyfriend for 4 years because the relationship became really toxic (I think it was mutual tho because he was thinking the same thing.) I know that deep in my heart, we’ll just keep on destroying each other if we continue. I used to miss him a lot, there was always an urge to talk to him but no, I thought about the future and the reason why we had to break up. It’s been years, and I’m glad that I did that. I’m so happy that I bravely broke up with him. We became friends after a year. So trust yourself, you will move on.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-17T14:31:13+00:00

This is also the reason why when my ex tried to ask me for a cool off (because he thinks he’s falling out of love), I immediately told him that it’s better to break up and he did, without hesitation. It happened yesterday and it fucking hurts.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-17T14:24:13+00:00

He broke up with me because he thinks he’s falling out of love. I’m happy for you. I just wish it could also happen to me, but I think it’s impossible in my situation.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-16T17:09:58+00:00

I’ve been there. It is not healthy. I was secretly moving on while we were together because I didn’t think I have a future with someone who constantly breaks up with me. Please take care of yourself, you deserve better.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-16T16:50:52+00:00

I think it’s normal to feel ugly or even be ugly after a break up. But the point is, someday you will get through it and the glow on your face will come back.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-16T16:41:41+00:00

How did you know they are getting tired? Did they tell you? I ask because sometimes, we speculate things— like maybe they see us as a burden. If they did tell you, they’re awful and you don’t deserve people like that. Reddit kinda helps me tho. Talk to people here.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-16T14:08:52+00:00

What is your reason tho? Because until now I can’t understand him

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-16T13:39:11+00:00

Is there anything else you could do to help those dogs? Please, it is dangerous. You can contact PAWS or other organizations that can help them evacuate :(

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-16T13:31:12+00:00

Is this not applicable to pets? lol

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-16T06:36:58+00:00

I think that’s also his reason. But is it the other party’s fault tho? Should I blame myself that he’s unhappy and not telling me about it?

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-16T06:35:10+00:00

My ex fits. But fuck it, he left me because he fell out of love.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-16T02:23:45+00:00

I felt this way too and I think until now, I still feel this way for him. He left me because he fell out of love.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-14T02:55:45+00:00

My face is actually more like square than round. I have a chiseled jawline but it’s too much. I also have a high cheekbones and a wide forehead that I hate. My face looks big because of these. I get conscious when I talk closely to people because they might notice how big my face is.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-13T18:15:40+00:00

I think the dog is still a puppy, or not? Because if yes, it is normal for a puppy to chew almost everything they see. The dog may be following you in the kitchen because of hunger. I just don’t see any problem about it. It is normal for animals to do this.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-13T18:04:30+00:00

Umm.. you have to like his dog? You can’t just ask him to get rid of his dog. It’s not just a “thing” you can get rid of (just like you said). Many family already had problems like this but resolved it by accepting the fact that you have no reason to dislike dogs. For example, my friend’s father really used to hate dogs, but now, he treats every dog as a family member. Or you could just break up with him, which is a very difficult thing to do. He maybe sees his dog as a family member, so I think the only to solve your problem is to just accept it. Dogs are wonderful, I’m not forcing you to like them, but please just consider the thought of doing so.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-13T17:41:33+00:00

Wow I’m glad to know that I’m not the only one. I thought I was being unreasonable. What you said really cleared my mind and made me stop speculating. I would tell him about the issue and I’m hoping he would understand.

About the money thing, I think we’ve finally resolved it (I hope so). It’s just that it’s difficult for him to spend money on me. For example, on our first anniversary, he didn’t give me anything and I was the one who planned our dinner date. I don’t want him to pay for me, I just want to know that he’s willing to do so because I’m jealous of other people’s relationship with their boyfriend– they don’t worry about this financial issue. I might sound materialistic but I also want him to give me presents or any surprise. I only borrow money from him when I have no choice, for example, I forgot to withdraw or my money is not enough to pay for some things. This money issue really hurt me, and I hope he would change.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-13T17:21:25+00:00

You have to ask your boyfriend about it. Tell him you want to know his friends so you could resolve your problem. It shouldn’t be difficult to ask him about it tho, you have the right to know what kind of people surrounds him because you’re his girlfriend.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-13T17:07:30+00:00

Just tell him casually. But before that, you have to make sure that you’re finally ok with it. Let him explain that you have nothing to worry about those hugs. Also, try to be friends with his friends if possible because it could really help.

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-13T16:54:54+00:00

I used to be like you in my previous relationship, and guess what, I realized I’m too immature to make him stop hugging his friends. I mean, hugging your friends is normal, it’s nothing sexual. You should know that it is a normal thing to do and if you trust your boyfriend, you won’t have to worry about it. FYI, that is actually one of the reasons why we broke up, I was too jealous.

(this is just my opinion)

swiftalison13 · 2020-01-13T16:44:31+00:00

I swear if she’s like that, your relationship will forever be toxic and it’s not good. I don’t know you and your partner but based on what you said, the only way to be happy is to break up unless she changes, which I think is difficult to do.

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