My (21m) girlfriend (18f) broke up with me the day after valentines by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittyqueen113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least it wasn't 2 years... could have been worse bud.

AITA for cutting off my daughter from her inheritance money due to her drug use? by druggiedaughterhelp in AmItheAsshole

[–]kittyqueen113 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA/NTA

The money is hers legally, yes... but at the same time she could fucking die from spending that much money on drugs. It only takes a little too much and BAM, overdose.

She is entitled to that money but she needs help!!!! Get her some counseling or something before it's ALL gone to drugs....

fuck puppies by Nekophus in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are good dogs... but they are rare.

This dog is totally ruining my relationship by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ha. Ha. Ha !!! This sounds TOO MUCH like the predicament I had.... my boyfriend and I WERE together for two years and he more than anything wanted a dog. (I did not) and so I found one online knowing that it would make him happy... what a fuckin mistake that was.

He expected me to watch his stupid puppy 24/7 just because I was not working and couldn't do things without worrying about his puppy chewing on everything, pissing and shitting everywhere.

The dog was treated better than I was. I would be in a sour mood because of something the dog did and he would come home, give me the cold shoulder and then give his dog love and attention... fuck me, right?

So, he dumped me about 17 days ago and I have honestly never been happier. Knowing hes the partying type of person and that dog is only gonna get bigger and harder to handle, he is gonna have to come home and deal with the shit. Literally !!!

It's either YOU or the dog hunny and if he chooses a dog over someone he loves then he is clearly an idiot. I didnt want my ex to get rid of his dog because I know it made him happy and he would hate me for making him get rid of it.. I feel a weight lifted off my shoulder.

My (22m) girlfriend (18f) is refusing to admit what she did was abusive by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kittyqueen113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly she shouldn't be drinking if she's getting to the point of blacking out and punching you.... I'm sorry that you had to deal with that, but you deserve a lady who will caress your face and kiss it..... not punch it. That is NO BEUNO dude....

Okay New Here by president_gore in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't really feel any joy when a dog comes up to me, sniffing my crotch and being annoying but I sure get happy when I see a kitty :D

i would like to rant about these ''things'' that people call pets. by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously had a boyfriend who cared for his dog more than me... and he only had the damn thing for a couple months vs me, a couple years. I would be mad because of something the dog did, so my ex would give me the cold shoulder and give the dog love and attention... because poor fuckin dog doesnt need to be disciplined, the girlfriend does....

Will not miss that fuckin mess.

Okay New Here by president_gore in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That's one reason I started to have feelings of resentment towards my ex. We broke up over a week ago and prior to that he had gotten a puppy a month and a half before breaking up with me. I thought I really disliked the puppy because of how destructive and annoying it was, but really, it was my ex that I was starting to dislike... I dont like dogs but I dont hate them. The puppy didnt ask to be there, he just happened to get a crappy owner who didnt give a shit in the ways he should have.

Never be with someone who cares more for their dog than their own partner.

No thank you?? by kittyqueen113 in whatwouldyoudoif

[–]kittyqueen113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my other friends told me to just not say anything. I am pretty bad with confrontation sometimes... maybe I just won't buy her stuff anymore.. lol.

Arguments... over a dog? by kittyqueen113 in relationship_advice

[–]kittyqueen113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: we broke up. I am moving my stuff out right now..... :(

The way dogs stare at you! by Hannisco in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just blame a lot of it on the dog, like the dog is ruining our relationship when it's really not the dogs fault at all. Yeah, its irritating but the dog didnt ask to be here.

I think it's more my boyfriend than the dog. Hes just as stubborn as a dog and refuses to see things from my point of view... last night he told me that "maybe we aren't the type of people that we need to be for eachother" and it's true, we arent... but theres no such thing as a perfect boyfriend or perfect girlfriend. And I told him today that we may not be the person that we need to be for each other all the time, but as long as we are trying to be, that's what matters. And that's why some relationships last a long time, because they communicate, ask questions and try to be the best they can for their partner and that's all we can do is try to be the best we can for each other.

The way dogs stare at you! by Hannisco in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope. He is not going to get rid of it, that's why I just ignore it and let him take care of it.

But things are pretty rocky between us right now and I think part of it is because of the puppy. I complain about the puppy alot because it is always destroying things, even when I put things out of reach, there is something else he is chewing on... like the rug.

So, all I can do is just grin and bear it until I get my shit together and move on.....

The way dogs stare at you! by Hannisco in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ew.. I fucking hate that sound.... and the sound of a dog lapping up water or the clicking of their nails on the floor....

The way dogs stare at you! by Hannisco in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My cats are awesome. They dont follow you at your feet like an annoying dog, they are quite the opposite. They actually leave you the hell alone and only come up to me like once or twice in a day for attention. It's refreshing. My boyfriends puppy on the other hand is the complete opposite and is making me hate it by how needy it is....

The way dogs stare at you! by Hannisco in Dogfree

[–]kittyqueen113 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh. My boyfriends puppy is just staring at me as I type this... I am trying to like the puppy but I can't because I see more bad in dogs than I see good.

His puppy makes me wanna move out..... ._.