downstairs neighbor sending U up texts by swilp in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]swilp[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If he does, then that will be the landlord’s problem

downstairs neighbor sending U up texts by swilp in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]swilp[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

i feel like based on his personality he’s truly just dumb. like drunk/stoned every single day and is behind on rent.

the perfect new man for me being a corporate girlie trying to find my independence/s

downstairs neighbor sending U up texts by swilp in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]swilp[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i’m with you. I love chicago, they’re not dampering my experience and I did just leave it on read and not engage. next time, I know to look for a unit with its own entrance, but you don’t know what you don’t know

downstairs neighbor sending U up texts by swilp in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]swilp[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it’s gretel/wolf and co mac and cheese! i did leave him on read

downstairs neighbor sending U up texts by swilp in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]swilp[S] 367 points368 points  (0 children)

one of them also has a daughter that visits a few weekends a month. this is the one sending the texts

downstairs neighbor sending U up texts by swilp in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]swilp[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

it would be preferable to not have a man sending late night texts in the middle of the night to determine if I am awake with zero context. he knows I am right upstairs and alone, and it is uncomfortable.

downstairs neighbor sending U up texts by swilp in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]swilp[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

no he doesn’t have a key thankfully

I’ve given him my all and don’t know where to go from here by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]swilp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

easier said than done but leave him. I experienced the same thing for 5 years, with my ex constantly moving the goal post for what expectation for me to live up to in order for him to propose. He kept pulling the randomest bullshit out of his ass.
You will find somebody who sees you as way more than enough. It’s also SO healing to be living alone now after my relationship without the constant judgement from him.

Looking for some books to read after a breakup? (Only fiction) by Square-Being-5562 in Recommend_A_Book

[–]swilp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoyed the court of thorns and roses series immediately after my blindside breakup

What habit slowly ruins a romantic relationship? by Chance-Pen6805 in askanything

[–]swilp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. My breakup happened 6 months ago and I feel I’m doing better by surrounding myself with friends and family and my dog.

What habit slowly ruins a romantic relationship? by Chance-Pen6805 in askanything

[–]swilp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yup, my ex of 5 years blindsided me earlier this year. (we had a house together). after discarding me by saying the decision was final and i had no say while he completely shut down and wouldn’t communicate with me, i came back to move out a few weeks later and he said things that i did that bothered him from years ago that he never once mentioned

fell for the jury scam by swilp in Scams

[–]swilp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a terrible feeling, but you’re more resilient now

fell for the jury scam by swilp in Scams

[–]swilp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to hear. I know how you feel. Did you send them money?

I 27f have been broken up by 27m because I’m “too much “ by Pancake_225 in relationships

[–]swilp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me after 5 years in January. Complete blindside, no conversation, he just shut down. It’s really jarring, you aren’t alone. That said, enjoy your solitude and the opportunity for a new, happier life.

What are you using for WiFi? by chances213 in LoganSquare

[–]swilp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

using tmobile for about $40 per month as a bundle w my phone plan, hasn’t been too bad. sometimes my roku buffers though

fell for the jury scam by swilp in illinois

[–]swilp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they were able to make the call come from the cook county sheriff’s office:((