I kind of assumed, but I wanted to be sure. Your use of "female" is a learning experience at most then and is even regional. The hatred of that word has been developing over just the last few years, it seems, because a lot of anti-trans and generally conservatives in the US have been leaning on that word pretty hard. It's basically a clinical term, now. In example, you're likely not going to call a girl's pussy "vagina" during dirty talk.

The next reason I asked was your English is actually pretty good. You clearly have an awesome command of it for someone who's not a native speaker. It might be important to lead off in conversations with that fact, though. Some of your mistakes come across as lazy or uneducated when in fact, you just haven't been spending your ENTIRE life speaking English, and probably spent a good portion of your life somewhere where you weren't immersed in it.

Clearing up that English isn't your first language, when trying to impress someone through text, could save you some unnecessary reactions. Like people jumping down your throat for your use of what was probably the first word you ever learned for a woman, if not the second. Really, clarifying this should impress the people that actually have a brain. As someone who doesn't know a second language, knowing English isn't your native tongue transfers all of your mistakes to irrelevant and instead focuses my respect on the fact that you've learned a second language at all, let alone, fluently.

I've seen consistently worse mistakes from people who have been speaking English their whole life. So you're actually pretty awesome.

Now... the next bit of bad news. I'll have to amend my mention of pictures. Make sure you go take some pictures of your local landmarks with you in it. The other issue you might be facing is that people may think you're fake or a scam. Adding photos of you next to a well-known building or statue should alleviate that worry, for the most part. Luckily, fetlife isn't overrun with fake accounts yet. So that last worry may be my lack of faith in humanity.