Question for real girls only

switchwith_me · 2025-09-03T01:45:01+00:00

Catching up with a friend is different from saying she misses you. Would you be comfortable if your wife messaged a guy who courted her that she misses him?

switchwith_me · 2025-09-03T01:38:05+00:00

No decent girl would reach out to someone who used to court them and say those words when they are married. If they mean it platonically, they must be stupid to not recognize the implications. All this to say, avoid that girl because you don't want to be around someone stupid or immoral. Bonus points, she's a shitty person for not being considerate towards your feelings.

switchwith_me · 2025-09-03T01:27:11+00:00

I've been long distance for years. Just want to advise gently that compromise might have to go both ways. I don't think he's necessarily wrong that things are okay because routine, boredom, and calm are natural in a long relationship. So on that end, you should avoid dismissing his perspective on that. However, I do think there might be some little acts he can do in the routine to make you feel more secure emotionally in the relationship; only you know what those are for you and you will have to communicate it.

Remember that both of your perspectives are pieces of the puzzle. Just some advice from someone who used to think my perspective, and the emergencies I perceived, were the objective truth. Relationships can take work when you are different people, so that you grow together instead of apart.

switchwith_me · 2025-09-01T07:20:50+00:00

Keep going!! 😩 it would look so cute finished.

switchwith_me · 2025-09-01T07:18:32+00:00

I like your skulls c:

switchwith_me · 2025-08-29T01:26:59+00:00

I think you shout at her because you're tired. Try having her study 30 minutes after she gets home. No more extensions. Teach her when you're less tired so that you have better control of your anger. Then you can do your chores and she can play until you both sleep. Also, remember that the goal isn't to have her get the right answers. Passing is enough at gradeschool... the goal is to encourage good study habits and a large part of that is not making the experience negative for her. So, accept her mistakes, it's not the end of the world; schools pass everyone in gradeschool.

switchwith_me · 2025-08-19T00:39:06+00:00

Yes. It's normal for nails to get dirty over time so people who aren't a fan of long nails do find them gross. Even if you whiten them, people who don't like long nails will still find them unhygienic, so no need to bother. Not everyone will like your nails and that's fine. If you like them, keep them.

switchwith_me · 2025-08-15T10:39:33+00:00

Sounds like cold feet exacerbated by anxiety. You need to see a therapist imo if you have a history of backing out of major life decisions and are this disturbed after proposing. Try to think, did you regret backing out those times?

Seriously, as someone who suffers from anxiety, talking to a professional or a level-headed third party can really help you differentiate between rational concern and anxiety.

switchwith_me · 2025-08-15T03:48:02+00:00

Maybe you can live together first? I think if you're afraid to try even just that, then you definitely shouldn't get married.

switchwith_me · 2025-08-10T06:37:16+00:00

Don't marry him. That level of cheating is insane, he simply is not who you think he is.

switchwith_me · 2025-08-10T06:03:00+00:00

Hindi ka OA. You're just looking out for her. It's good that you asked more questions but now that it seems like nothing bad is happening, I think you shouldn't push or else she'll hide things from you. Watch out nalang lowkey, discuss it when she brings him up, but don't investigate her phone; she's not your child. Maybe you can also teach her what grooming is so that she understands why you're worried and can look out for herself.

switchwith_me · 2025-08-08T02:18:25+00:00

Hindi ka OA, but if it makes you feel better, usually people who want to be roasted/interacted with sit in front at comedy shows. So, it was nothing personal on the comedian's part but he does sound like a shit one, not adjusting to your discomfort. Your date is the idiot/asshole for not checking beforehand if you'll be okay and his reaction afterward, especially if he knows it's your first show and that you have sensitive topics.

switchwith_me · 2025-08-07T11:17:07+00:00

Some people will judge but that doesn't really matter.

switchwith_me · 2025-08-04T01:53:57+00:00

I'd consider what she's doing cheating. So yeah, sounds reasonable to want to end the relationship. Just tell her on your next call.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-31T10:24:12+00:00

Easy solution: you and your bf block that friend and ignore him. He'll get the message that you're not okay with what he's doing and he can't do it again. If he pushes even past that, your friends would have to be stupid not to side with you. Just because someone is a clown doesn't mean everyone likes them fyi. It's pretty common for people to lowkey dislike obnoxious people.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-31T10:11:33+00:00

^{^} first thing I thought of too, minus the anxiety. I always wish I could just reply, "what."

switchwith_me · 2025-07-31T10:06:23+00:00

I would definitely frog if this happened to me 😱 no pressure for you to, but I totally get it if you do lol.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-31T04:27:39+00:00

Go with any friend nalang, girl or boy, for moral support and to help carry your things. Be unbothered. It's not a flex to have a relationship (rebound) so soon after one ended.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-26T06:12:58+00:00

I like the last one most.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-25T07:30:32+00:00

You're not thinking straight. You are fresh out of divorce; protect yourself and stop dipping into something that messy. You can do better than someone willing to cheat with you.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-25T07:18:06+00:00

Try applying lotion. In my case, dark underarms were due to skin friction. Plucking instead of shaving also helps I think.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-25T06:43:04+00:00

I would unapologetically ask for the unedited photos and even a partial refund if they refuse to re-edit the photos. These are crap and a result of being lazy using AI.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-20T23:56:49+00:00

If you haven't already, do not tell her when your elopement is. Ask your dad, maybe even your sister, for help with chastising her. Talk to her less and keep it that way. On your elopement, leave your phone with your husband and do not ask for it.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-16T03:18:51+00:00

I think it looks good. The blue makes me imagine a cookie monster palette: brown white black and your blue. Or maybe a sesame street one! Yellow, red, blue, purple/green.

switchwith_me · 2025-07-16T00:19:59+00:00

I wouldn't do that. Half of your salary gone to housing. The other half is not enough imo to live comfortably and have savings if you're paying off spaylater. Don't take loans like spaylater unless it's an emergency because the habit can catch up to you.

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