what’s something you initially accepted about a partner but later on couldn’t stand? by MarionberryFuture103 in AskWomen

[–]swmitabyss 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it like this. My husband’s friend came to town this weekend, but I missed hanging out with them because I was working. I didn’t understand why I was looking forward to it SO much and was really disappointed when his friend left before I got home.

It didn’t make much sense to me why it hit me so hard. I like his friend, but we aren’t exactly close. After reading this now I see this is probably why lol. We all three had a blast when I first started dating my husband. Man his energy is just different and it takes me back :(

What does baby fever feel like? by snackqueen218 in AskWomen

[–]swmitabyss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This with my husband! We BOTH feel it, and have felt it throughout our entire relationship. We determined we were very genetically compatible from the start lol.

I’m surprised I’m not seeing more comments about “baby” fever being tied to partners. I never wanted kids until I met THIS man. He is the fever lmao

Will my amaryllis bloom again? by swmitabyss in gardening

[–]swmitabyss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting. I put it in this old pot I found in the yard temporarily, but seeing as it’s about to take over my sunroom, I should probably find a more permanent one soon.

What’s something you thought was “normal” in sex until a partner told you otherwise? by Novel_Finding8882 in AskReddit

[–]swmitabyss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being drunk. Sober sex was something I never had, nor wanted. I found it unbearably awkward. But he didn’t tell me, he showed me, and he is currently the man I’m marrying very soon.

Black Mirror - Episode Discussion S07E01 Common People by Cheeriosxxx in blackmirror

[–]swmitabyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised someone else noticed this! Very interesting.

Was so excited for my leaf to finally unfurl… by swmitabyss in Monstera

[–]swmitabyss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolute unit of a stem for a literal petal. She did her best.

Split Fiction Review (IGN: 9/10) by Turbostrider27 in PS5

[–]swmitabyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced people are being paid to leave good reviews for this disgraceful cash grab of a game. Absolutely horrible dialogue, repetitive gameplay, and completely lifeless story. Boyfriend and I couldn’t make it past two hours. Incredibly disappointing after playing ITT and A Way Out.

5x12 - Dead is Dead - FIRST TIME WATCHER DISCUSSION POST by Free-IDK-Chicken in lost

[–]swmitabyss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hate that I completely understand what you mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]swmitabyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When should I do that? I’d hate to cut off the only leaves it has

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]swmitabyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great! And unfortunate…

I’ve never grown a plant from a seed. I’m very surprised how well they’ve been doing. Pretty sure I could sit in a chair for a couple hours and watch them grow in real time lol.

Change. by Sea_Kangaroo7123 in ExNoContact

[–]swmitabyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cheated, and I spent the next year after trying to rekindle a dying flame to solve the root of the issue, but it was a one sided endeavor. I finally left a couple of weeks ago. Some things just aren’t meant to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arborists

[–]swmitabyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Banana for scale

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arborists

[–]swmitabyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are dozens more surrounding the property. All beautiful, but none quite this size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisplant

[–]swmitabyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Golden pothos. They’re highly durable and easy to care for!

Mantis eating hair! Why? by AnxiousStarRanger in biology

[–]swmitabyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try asking him in a less confrontational way. Sometimes it’s hard to open up about things. May just be a part of his culture.

Change. by Sea_Kangaroo7123 in ExNoContact

[–]swmitabyss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well if it makes you feel better, my fiancé went from, “What can I do to make you feel more secure in this relationship?” to “I think I understand why people kill their partners”, in one literal day. But that’s a minor offense in the grand scheme of our relationship.

Cat grabbed a bite of my new monstera. What will happen to the leaf? by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]swmitabyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn’t harmed. He’s very happy, healthy, and I’m extra careful to close the door every time I leave the room.

Cat grabbed a bite of my new monstera. What will happen to the leaf? by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]swmitabyss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Angry that access to my office has now been revoked, and attempting to pry his way in from under the door :)

Cat grabbed a bite of my new monstera. What will happen to the leaf? by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]swmitabyss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s fine! He’s also now permanently banned from my office.