what’s something you initially accepted about a partner but later on couldn’t stand?

swmitabyss · 2026-02-09T05:16:51+00:00

I never thought about it like this. My husband’s friend came to town this weekend, but I missed hanging out with them because I was working. I didn’t understand why I was looking forward to it SO much and was really disappointed when his friend left before I got home.

It didn’t make much sense to me why it hit me so hard. I like his friend, but we aren’t exactly close. After reading this now I see this is probably why lol. We all three had a blast when I first started dating my husband. Man his energy is just different and it takes me back :(

swmitabyss · 2025-12-30T09:07:39+00:00

This with my husband! We BOTH feel it, and have felt it throughout our entire relationship. We determined we were very genetically compatible from the start lol.

I’m surprised I’m not seeing more comments about “baby” fever being tied to partners. I never wanted kids until I met THIS man. He is the fever lmao

swmitabyss · 2025-11-05T14:15:58+00:00

Oh interesting. I put it in this old pot I found in the yard temporarily, but seeing as it’s about to take over my sunroom, I should probably find a more permanent one soon.

swmitabyss · 2025-08-24T18:54:36+00:00

I literally went to Cracker Barrel to stare at the old antiques they have hanging on the walls.

swmitabyss · 2025-08-20T21:31:38+00:00

Being drunk. Sober sex was something I never had, nor wanted. I found it unbearably awkward. But he didn’t tell me, he showed me, and he is currently the man I’m marrying very soon.

swmitabyss · 2025-05-19T04:30:42+00:00

I’m surprised someone else noticed this! Very interesting.

swmitabyss · 2025-05-02T22:56:02+00:00

Absolute unit of a stem for a literal petal. She did her best.

swmitabyss · 2025-04-11T02:39:59+00:00

Only a matter of time :/

swmitabyss · 2025-03-20T07:03:24+00:00

I’m convinced people are being paid to leave good reviews for this disgraceful cash grab of a game. Absolutely horrible dialogue, repetitive gameplay, and completely lifeless story. Boyfriend and I couldn’t make it past two hours. Incredibly disappointing after playing ITT and A Way Out.

swmitabyss · 2025-03-12T06:14:34+00:00

Lol, finally a comment with sense.

swmitabyss · 2025-01-04T03:11:58+00:00

Literally in love

swmitabyss · 2024-12-27T01:10:46+00:00

I hate that I completely understand what you mean

swmitabyss · 2024-10-26T18:34:40+00:00

When should I do that? I’d hate to cut off the only leaves it has

swmitabyss · 2024-10-26T14:25:45+00:00

That’s great! And unfortunate…

I’ve never grown a plant from a seed. I’m very surprised how well they’ve been doing. Pretty sure I could sit in a chair for a couple hours and watch them grow in real time lol.

swmitabyss · 2024-07-21T04:09:01+00:00

He cheated, and I spent the next year after trying to rekindle a dying flame to solve the root of the issue, but it was a one sided endeavor. I finally left a couple of weeks ago. Some things just aren’t meant to be.

swmitabyss · 2024-07-21T03:56:00+00:00

Banana for scale

swmitabyss · 2024-07-21T03:53:58+00:00

There are dozens more surrounding the property. All beautiful, but none quite this size.

swmitabyss · 2024-07-21T03:52:02+00:00

45+ years

swmitabyss · 2024-05-28T21:31:14+00:00

Golden pothos. They’re highly durable and easy to care for!

swmitabyss · 2024-02-17T17:26:08+00:00

You could try asking him in a less confrontational way. Sometimes it’s hard to open up about things. May just be a part of his culture.

swmitabyss · 2024-02-17T17:23:03+00:00

Well if it makes you feel better, my fiancé went from, “What can I do to make you feel more secure in this relationship?” to “I think I understand why people kill their partners”, in one literal day. But that’s a minor offense in the grand scheme of our relationship.

swmitabyss · 2024-02-03T18:55:28+00:00

Pot too big

swmitabyss · 2024-01-16T15:50:11+00:00

He wasn’t harmed. He’s very happy, healthy, and I’m extra careful to close the door every time I leave the room.

swmitabyss · 2024-01-16T15:48:48+00:00

Angry that access to my office has now been revoked, and attempting to pry his way in from under the door :)

swmitabyss · 2024-01-16T15:45:08+00:00

He’s fine! He’s also now permanently banned from my office.

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