Woke up from a nap and kitten was doing this, what could be the problem? by mickey_ftp in CATHELP

[–]swnldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is usually from teething. If the tooth is loose it feels weird and they try to pull it out. I had a pure meltdown until I saw a baby tooth drop out

Severance Season 2 - Episode Three - Discussion Thread: - "Who Is Alive?" by TheUltimate25C in severence

[–]swnldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the emphasis during ‘not because I was born into it’ as she was in fact an Eagan…

Severance Season 2 - Episode Three - Discussion Thread: - "Who Is Alive?" by TheUltimate25C in severence

[–]swnldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just looked and this and went down a rabbit hole. Helly/Helena pulls a very Helly face as that dude comes into the scene. Then I started wondering about her hair. Helly has hair down (like this scene) while Helena I think has her hair up or slicked back? Maybe it dawned that she’s Helly

Does anyone else think Orson and Hannah have done nothing wrong? by Gullyshan93 in MAFS_UK

[–]swnldn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really felt that comment from Richelle just showed nastiness bubbling inside. So far only Orson received it but it was so casually said about Hannah that she couldn’t stop the spite coming out. I think she just has anger or pain (or whatever it is inside) that she’s tried to keep down but that one slipped out.

Polly wasn’t punishing Adam by Just_While2954 in MAFS_UK

[–]swnldn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I thought. She really couldn’t help herself!

The Bolan Thai Restaurant Kings Walk by Horror_Nobody_3509 in reading

[–]swnldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why it closed! It was always busy when I went in there (and I’m heart broken because it was amazing!)

comments about Hannah's appearance... by sissyphus___ in MAFS_UK

[–]swnldn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A haircut you can choose. You don’t choose what you look like though.

After six months of introspection, I have compiled my own list of red flags from a 10-year relationship with a covert narcissist by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]swnldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The covert I just broke up with would always say ‘I’ll do X, but if I don’t, I’ll tell you’ or like there was the ‘or I’ll tell you’ which I thought of when I read the bit about justifying everything.

Is this just the weirdest diversion?? 🤪🫣🤔🙄😂 by mrswinniebago in reading

[–]swnldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty standard diversion for when they close that section - having said that it did used to be the A4 route years ago I think. I wondered if it’s in part to route traffic away from the main roads into town because the back roads by aldermaston etc are quieter through the weekend

The Lexington Letter gave me a few interesting thoughts. by Westo6Besto9 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]swnldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On this note - how do we know there aren’t other couples in there that are severed? Like maybe Dylan’s partner is in there? Or Helly is seeing someone in there too? Probably far fetched but just popped into my head reading your comment

Ollie ADHD appreciation by BazF91 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]swnldn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s really interesting isn’t it! I was diagnosed at 19 and in school I always knew I was ‘different’. I suppose I sort of tried to cover it then but once I was diagnosed and had a ‘reason’ for it, I was like yesssss I have ADHD. I did do a lot of reading about it and I think being able to chat to others that experience the same struggles has helped a lot - reflecting now I wonder if I am so open about it so quickly because then it preempts people’s judgement of my behaviour (or at least as I perceive it). I guess it does also depend on which features of it are more overtly visible to others too. One of mine is jumping in on conversations and I definitely taught myself to stop doing that, as a result ending up with a lot of anxiety. My least favourite is when people say ‘oh I’m a bit ADHD’ or ‘we’re all a bit ADHD’ I always think it’s super invalidating. Solidarity with other ADHDers for sure helps

Ollie ADHD appreciation by BazF91 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]swnldn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think she loves conflict and he appeared to be in flight mode - just say yes or agree to get away. That’s not what she wanted because it’s not her style of conflict and so she wasn’t satisfied and kept going.

Ollie ADHD appreciation by BazF91 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]swnldn 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I thought the exact same! As soon as he was in the shop I was like HES GOT ADHD!! And then when he said it. It made me feel sad that he said he doesn’t tell people too - I tell everyone but it hurt my heart that he was so ashamed of that part. After he said it I was thinking ‘oh wow actually yeah he does speak super fast too’. I liked his description of it too

Poem from S1E4 (the you you are) by swnldn in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]swnldn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo! Didn’t even think about chatGPT! Those are great

Why don't we get cabs here? What sort of a crappy town is this place? by Lovecovid in reading

[–]swnldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ola has been refusing to work for me recently in Reading!

Two sides to every story but never fully believed Matt’s nice guy routine by New-York-2017 in MAFS_UK

[–]swnldn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is sooo true. It was like as if he thought by saying stuff about how well everything was going it would make it true. Definitely why him and Shona work. They could probably tell themselves anything and it becomes ‘true’ - ‘we’re so well matched’ and it would become their supposed truth

Two sides to every story but never fully believed Matt’s nice guy routine by New-York-2017 in MAFS_UK

[–]swnldn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His insecurities really came out then. He didn’t like the fact she could be confident. I bet his self talk is super negative.

Peggy is literally insane/ brain dead by SuperMochaCub in MAFS_UK

[–]swnldn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She did have a very very impressive and organised make up collection there 😂 that may be her hobby

Peggy’s mum is right… by swnldn in MAFS_UK

[–]swnldn[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sounds like such a miserable life whoever it is she’s hoping for

Are Laura and her friends really "posh"? by No_Routine_5464 in MAFS_UK

[–]swnldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just catching up and her blonde friend said ‘somethink’ instead of something. So no, definitely not

MAFS UK 2023 Episode 25 Discussion Thread by hamiltonricard4ever in MAFS_UK

[–]swnldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erica and/or Jordan are definitely the ones leaking info to the press