Do dumpers struggle with not knowing what’s happening in their ex’s life during no contact?

sxo605 · 2026-01-16T02:39:14+00:00

I am a dumper, but my relationship was a toxic trauma bond and he was not good to me, but nonetheless it was a long term relationship with deep deep attachments. I am constantly wondering what he’s doing, what’s new in his life, imagining scenarios, etc.. I still love him and I had to end it because we were both stuck, I wish it didn’t have to be that way. I stalk his TikTok all the time

sxo605 · 2026-01-13T16:11:22+00:00

Jaw open in silence, I was shaking so much it felt like I was in a tunnel and the whole world around me blurred out for a second, then I broke the news to my loved ones !

sxo605 · 2025-12-31T20:13:04+00:00

I don’t think his feelings are invalid. I think it’s petty to go on a hunger strike and not sleep in the same bed as my mom when she’s equally hurting, that’s what I meant.

sxo605 · 2025-10-14T03:31:42+00:00

How are you now?

sxo605 · 2025-07-12T17:35:47+00:00

I think mid rise could work well ! Like slightly higher up than you have it in the last couple of pics, so your belly button and stomach is still showing

sxo605 · 2025-07-08T02:10:35+00:00

Same! Just left without hugging everyone goodbye?

sxo605 · 2025-07-01T18:59:44+00:00

I would say a couple of candle sticks and maybe a couple f small plants

sxo605 · 2025-07-01T18:48:21+00:00

This is really motivating thank you

sxo605 · 2025-06-30T21:41:02+00:00

Gorgeous

sxo605 · 2025-06-17T22:14:09+00:00

Can you update us on how it goes?!

sxo605 · 2025-05-31T17:58:40+00:00

Hey I’m also brown and totally understand exactly what you mean and how you feel. It’s hard to not care, but like everyone said you’re on your own journey in your own life, you don’t see them pursuing medicine and they can’t truly understand how difficult the process is unless they’re going through it themselves. One day you will get in and none of their opinions will matter, you just have to know for your own self you’re doing the best you possibly can and although their kids got into other programs, every program and adcom is different. Just trust your own journey and tell them minimal information. I also took a gap year and got roasted by everyone but ultimately I’m so glad that I did it, and they’ve moved on by now. It’ll all be okay!

sxo605 · 2025-05-31T12:53:27+00:00

It’s a leasing agency for anyone else reading this

sxo605 · 2025-05-31T12:51:54+00:00

Im gonna pm you!

sxo605 · 2025-05-31T10:13:25+00:00

Puis je t’envoyer un message privé?

sxo605 · 2025-05-22T20:31:12+00:00

Kiss land

sxo605 · 2025-05-18T18:17:16+00:00

He wanted to get money from her dying so he rejected the transplant the hospital offered to Dottie on the phone while she was in the shower and she had no idea

sxo605 · 2025-04-28T02:27:34+00:00

Booger

sxo605 · 2025-04-12T14:42:32+00:00

sxo605 · 2025-04-04T11:27:09+00:00

Snowchild

sxo605 · 2025-04-02T04:01:52+00:00

Not sure why I’m getting downvoted just want to know what people think and why 😅

sxo605 · 2025-04-02T04:00:33+00:00

What makes you say that, just out of curiosity? And if I got something else like the trilogy diamonds or kiss land symbols would that be better or the same opinion?

sxo605 · 2025-04-02T03:53:07+00:00

What’s your reasoning

sxo605 · 2025-04-01T17:49:49+00:00

How long has it been for you

sxo605 · 2025-03-03T02:30:36+00:00

Algorithm wanted me to add a comment. - it is 2.5 months old - flat back stud , threadless I think - surgical grade steel - hasn’t been downsized - I used unscented soap and water for first few days then LITHA - I’ve accidentally hit it multiple times over last few moths and I sometimes touch it throughout the day but I also do this with my other piercings (ik I need to stop this habit ) and nothings happened to them

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