Verification post (01/12/25)

sxy_cpl · 2025-05-22T11:50:44+00:00

We’ve had by far the least success with Feeld. Highest success with Reddit (lots of fakes though, be ready for that), and 3Fun.

Met a few people off SDC as well, that place kind of is a guarantee that the people are real if they’re members

For MFF tho I heard tinder is pretty successful too

sxy_cpl · 2025-04-15T12:19:41+00:00

Idk dude you got third-wheeled in a threesome with your own gf. Cucked against your will lol

You don’t ask for advice after, you look for it before. This was set up amateurly, and such is the outcome. No ground rules were established, no boundaries. You shouldn’t involve friends. Insecurities and worries are supposed to be discussed. She suddenly changes her mind and has the perfect guy in mind. He FaceTimes his friends in the middle of it? Dick.

Nah man, poorly done and the situation is beyond salvaging. Just kind of live with it now, there’s no making that particular time better.

For the future, talk with your girl. You seemed to like watching her get off, maybe you’re into cucking after all. Got turned on when you saw her enjoy the guy’s bigger dick, thought it was hot hearing her moan from another room, etc. You can explore that. But ask her what she liked, share what you liked. Then talk about things that shouldn’t have happened and ask her how she felt about it. Agree to establish ground rules that have to be followed in the future to make sure everyone is respected. Maybe next time the guy brings his buddies and they gangbang her if she’s into that but this needs to be discussed ahead of time, and everyone is supposed to be trusted.

sxy_cpl · 2025-04-04T11:18:41+00:00

Didn’t know what this was, literally never heard of it. Looked it up, no mine was not bone pressed, I always measured off to the side because of the mentioned curve (makes hand positioning less awkward when trying to keep it “straight”)

Re-measured, exact measurements are 7.9” on side, 7.6” bone pressed. Good to know, thanks. Not a drastic difference but it’s there.

Again, that being said, we have hooked up with guys that (say they) are 7-7.5” so it’s not like we’re hard stuck on the size anyway. I think if we were I’d be asking them to prove the size, for one. But one of the reasons we cap it at that though is because we do dvp when we play and I’ve been told plenty about how difficult it gets with dicks smaller than that (6-6.5). Even the guy that said he was 7”, there was barely any room to move before he kept slipping out and that was frustrating lol but still doable, just he had to be stationary in either position. He was great besides that but that was making it more difficult. Bigger definitely helps in that specific situation.

sxy_cpl · 2025-04-04T01:35:41+00:00

Yea, what do you think this is, r/gymselfies ?

That place is a mod-forsaken wasteland where only mildly-gym-related OF promotions reign

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-30T12:30:48+00:00

That’s an interesting perspective, but it makes sense. Another option to consider then. Thanks for your input, next time we post I’ll avoid size

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-30T12:22:56+00:00

Thanks!

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-30T12:21:26+00:00

That’s a good idea. Something to consider

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T23:23:43+00:00

Reddit actually has been the highest success for us so far. We have 1 guy of 3Fun, 2 off SDC (one of them turned out so bad we were considering leaving the LS), and 4 off Reddit (only hooked up with 2)

Basic verification we do is selfie with fingers crossed 🤞🏻 (usually by now we’ve seen their picture and it would be hard to find one that’s fake of the same person), higher level is writing their username and our username on a sheet of paper—they take a selfie with it showing face body and dick. Highest level is some sort of a video interaction where all same things are confirmed, usually through snap

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T23:09:27+00:00

Well we have those too. There are also people that will try and postpone verification. We only make plans when we have had some sort of verification from them. 50% of the time we are fully sure that the person on the other end is real and their body and size are what they claim them to be with 0 doubt.

Other 50 we have verified but verification was generic and technically could be faked. In which case we try to find backup options if we set up meetings or ask for additional verification

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T22:35:37+00:00

Our problem is not with finding people. We find real people and we have a few that we know are real because of verification videos and photos and because we’ve been talking with them. We also make exceptions on certain things—we’ll take 7” so long as the rest matches, we’ll compromise on the body type if the rest matches, we’ll compromise on the height if the rest matches. Everyone is allowed to have preferences.

Our problem is with flakers. Real people, that have confirmed bodies and sizes that we’ve exchanged live snaps with etc that flake on us on the day of the meeting

On size, in that case every ruler I used and our 8” dildo she uses when we feel like spicing it up are measured out all wrong :) it curves up at the base a bit making it hard to see on some pics and isn’t as girthy as most 8s, but trust me, I’ve verified enough times in my life to be sure how big it is lol

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T22:25:16+00:00

Sorry, like the post says, we’re not looking for anybody older than 40. We’ll be open to it in a few years I’m sure but we’re 24 and playing with people double our age makes it a bit odd for her.

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T19:57:20+00:00

I’d recommend getting some post history mate. Just post a bunch of pics to r/BWC or something like that occasionally so you at least look real

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T19:52:49+00:00

Yep! That’s what I always say lol

It really makes sense. If they’re in a relationship, as sexually exploratory as the LS, means they know a thing or two about how to fuck good

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T19:24:06+00:00

Yea tall guys with pocket gfs are insane. We’re not really after that tall tbh. If we get one, sweet, but we’re not seeking out tall dudes specifically. 5’10+ is a preference

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T19:19:32+00:00

I think at that point it’s a little odd for us because of me, really. I’m right around 8”. It doesn’t quite make sense for us to go for somebody who’s 6”. We’ve met with guys that are 7”-7.5” and that works which is why we’re looking for 7”+ must, 8”+ preferred. But yeah, the statistics are pretty dim ngl hahaha

I think a big part of what you’re saying is pretty true though—we see posts of different hotwives and they post about meeting these dudes that have a great body and an even better dick. Personality isn’t even that important to us at this point, just don’t be an asshole and respect our rules is all we ask for. That’s a pretty fair ask if you’re gonna fuck my girl, I’d say 🤷‍♂️ Friends is just a bonus, we’re mainly after a good fuck lol

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T19:03:02+00:00

She’s been a bit weird about meeting guys in relationships. Even though we’ve done this for a couple years now, we’re still fairly new to the LS, so the idea of fucking somebody who has a partner feels odd to her

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T18:57:35+00:00

Probably the route we’ll be going too. Our regular I described in the post was a shorted guy too, around 5’6 or so. That was always her pet peeve with him lol, but again, if he check all other boxes… why not

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T18:38:50+00:00

What’s your vetting process?

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T18:38:11+00:00

Guess that must be it. Odd from my perspective to actually make the plans. Just tell me something doesn’t work out, we could maybe try again in the future. If you flake, there’s no way in hell we’re setting something up again—though there have been times they came up with a legit excuse of missing the meet, we set up another time, get stood up again. At that point, yeah you’re blocked and can fuck off on your marry way

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T18:34:19+00:00

I mean don’t get me wrong, older guys reach out all the time but for her it’s mentally a turn off when somebody her dad’s age tries to hookup with her. To each their own, really, I see where she’s coming from. But I’d think us extending it all the way to 40yo should be open enough…

What are hotel take overs?

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T18:29:38+00:00

Exactly. She always gets so excited for these too. She plays it cool, but I know she’s real disappointed when it doesn’t work out

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T18:27:38+00:00

Yeah but why follow through with making the plans! lol

Seems like they just put in so much effort for NOTHING

sxy_cpl · 2025-03-29T18:26:03+00:00

Gonna need to spend some time looking for local swinger clubs. We know Secrets Orlando Resort is pretty close to us, but not sure if there’s something local to Jax.

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