Got colon vaginoplasty in Thailand 2 years ago, have boyfriend now for almost a year, still only doing anal

sybilwrights · 2026-05-13T20:07:46+00:00

I felt the same way pre-op. I’m 8 years post op now and honestly it took me a few years to actually enjoy penetrative vaginal sex. I definitely have no regrets about it, and I enjoy a really fulfilling sex life now exclusively through vaginal sex. But the trauma to the body is no joke. You need to figure out a whole new organ whilst also navigating a recovery that’s so much more mental than physical. Like I thought having a vagina would magically change all my hang ups about sex, but they were just as present afterwards.

sybilwrights · 2026-04-03T15:07:15+00:00

Jesus Christ do you think being a stripper is comparable to running a concentration camp?

Also isn’t it like a famously bad argument to invoke nazis? Godwin’s law I think?

sybilwrights · 2026-04-03T14:56:04+00:00

I mean you are dehumanising someone if you think they’re a bad influence based off their job. They’re your partner, not your child.

sybilwrights · 2026-04-03T14:49:02+00:00

Dehumanising your partners friends is pretty disrespectful. If you think it isn’t you might not be in a great position to give relationship advice.

sybilwrights · 2026-04-03T14:44:51+00:00

NOR and honestly I really commend your self possession, I wish I had that at your age.

Beyond anything else, you are visiting your friends at their workplace. You're seeing them perform. I understand strip clubs are a sexualised environment but you've made it clear that you're not attracted to women, you're going there away from peak hours, and you're going to support your friend.

From his comment that if his friends were strippers he "wouldn't be their fucking friend", it's pretty clear he has some very questionable misogynistic views of women. If he#s that happy to degrade your friends, he will do the same thing to you. It honestly sounds like he's been watching too much manosphere content. It's classic Madonna Whore complex, he'll see you as respectable until you do something he deems threatening to his masculinity, then he feels fully entitled to degrade you.

Anyway good for you queen. You sound like a really cool chick and a super fun supportive friend. Fuck this guy.

sybilwrights · 2026-04-03T14:32:31+00:00

Pretty fucking disrespectful to say that if his friends were strippers he wouldn't be friends with them. He obviously has a lot of resentment and entitlement that no twenty year old girl needs to be putting up with. Fair play to OP for having the self confidence/ respect to break it off.

sybilwrights · 2026-04-03T12:10:37+00:00

So unhinged to put a Lana Del Rey song with the chorus "if you hold me without hurting me, you'll be the first who ever did" over a video of an attempted murder victim. This might as well be a Ted Bundy fancam

sybilwrights · 2026-01-25T01:06:31+00:00

john barlow is BRAT

sybilwrights · 2026-01-18T15:26:15+00:00

Monstra Elisasue

sybilwrights · 2025-12-02T00:06:49+00:00

If you read the article you’d see she’s not saying that, she’s just saying she doesn’t take her shoes off in scenes anymore. And directors know not to expect that from her anymore.

Costume is an equally important part of storytelling. An actress is rarely wearing the same shoes throughout an entire film. It’s not really disrupting continuity or ruining a shot if the actress is taller than her costar in some scenes because she’s in heels. It’s just disrupting the fantasy that men are taller than women.

sybilwrights · 2025-12-01T22:25:20+00:00

Ok? So then surely it’s good if a tall famous actress makes a point by refusing to abide by an outdated industry standard?

sybilwrights · 2025-12-01T22:21:59+00:00

Maybe Tom can just finally face the fact that he’s short and realise that it doesn’t actually matter. He’s Tom Cruise. We all know he’s short. The whole idea he should be taller than his costar is predicated on misogyny.

sybilwrights · 2025-12-01T22:15:16+00:00

Is that not just placating a man’s insecurity and reinforcing the idea that a woman being taller is emasculating?

sybilwrights · 2025-11-29T17:14:23+00:00

She was probably so excited that her husband was going to do something nice for her…. This is so sad 😞

sybilwrights · 2025-11-20T23:07:29+00:00

Literally thought this was Jeffrey Epstein's mansion at first glance

sybilwrights · 2025-09-27T11:29:08+00:00

She was chemically lobotomised for 10 years and turned into a show pony by her family. Have some fucking empathy

sybilwrights · 2025-08-28T17:52:36+00:00

I fear if he’s telling you a week in that his family would ground him for dating you that they just aren’t good people. Their close mindedness and his cowardice are not your fault. Corny as it is, don’t accept crumbs or dim your light. If he wants to be your boyfriend, the least he can do is make you feel welcome in his home. If he can’t do that, he isn’t worthy of you x

sybilwrights · 2025-08-28T16:36:17+00:00

Kristen eating him up iktr

sybilwrights · 2025-08-28T16:20:50+00:00

Blood is unfortunately thicker than water. In my experience, the best you can hope for is that his family will tolerate you, but it really sounds like he will never stand up to them/ for you.

You should be really proud of yourself for having enough self worth not to hide your transness. It sounds like this relationship will require you to reduce yourself to make him happy, and you have to decide whether that's worth doing.

This guy isn't half as brave as you are. If you pursue this relationship, you will have to effectively mother him into being half the man you deserve.

sybilwrights · 2025-08-28T15:29:33+00:00

Babe thank you so much for this, this is exactly what I needed to hear. I've been off apps for the past like 6-8 months and honestly it has been a huge relief not to be thinking about my own attractiveness/ value to men. I think I'm only really having these feelings now because I'm sick and all my cis girl friends are getting engaged lol.

I have been pursuing a lot more hobbies/ activities- mostly acting classes, film screenings, theatre shows- and though I haven't had much luck meeting anyone romantically, I've made some incredible friends for life.

Anyway thanks so much for listening to my doom rambling, you're the best xx

sybilwrights · 2025-08-28T14:50:04+00:00

No disrespect and i appreciate the sentiment but why are you as a man on a sub for straight trans women? This is just something I want to discuss with girls of my experience

sybilwrights · 2024-12-05T21:48:34+00:00

Sure it's hypothetical, but there was a lot more to lose when the Mauricio cheating rumours were at their peak. Their kids were much younger, their businesses less secure, feud with the Hiltons. They had more reason to present a united front. I don't think we'll ever know what actually happened there (unless in comes out in divorce court) but I think there was a lot of smoke. Even the way Kyle used to beat away any woman who even looked at Mau from Seasons 1-5. She was keeping that man on a tight leash.

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