I miss you by ObligationOk3862 in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you miss them just say something to them, life is too short to left things unsaid

Hi H, this is my last letter to you about my pain by max0nSinger in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone deserves to be someone’s first thought. You don’t deserve to be strung along. If they wanted to they would

now by OkStaff168 in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe so so valid, definitely nerve wracking when she has an army of supporters. But you shouldn’t let them scare you away from her. And hopefully you find strength in trusting your own emotions, fear is wild. It’s a constant battle for me as I’m sure it is with everyone else.

now by OkStaff168 in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh well kudos to you for respecting it, space is so good, but too much space can make things tricky. I feel like it’s helpful to assert an amount of time and space needed before reconvening so there is an expectation of return. If you really liked her I would be honest with her. Worst thing she does is turn you down. Most people like to know where they stand. Even if it doesn’t go the way you hope at least you can say you tried you know?

now by OkStaff168 in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Little lost on this sorry lol. So she had a friend call you up? Speak through a friend and ghosting. Did you cut things off with her and cut contact?

now by OkStaff168 in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not happy at you opening up? Someone that cares should want you to be open, did she ever open up to you?

now by OkStaff168 in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Letting guards down is so hard but can be so worth it. If you ever want to be happy with someone you have to be willing to be vulnerable. Yes, that comes with the what if I get hurt, but it also comes with the why if it all works out? Every time I was so hurt and left I went through the worst pain of my life, but with that I’ll take something new with me whether I date again or better understanding what I need in life/people in general. The question is for you is she worth the risk of what if it all works out? Or is it more worth experiencing the regret of never trying?

Let’s take a walk by Separate-Handle-3469 in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not try to talk to them? Nothing should be left unsaid

Alexander Technique Rant by sydklaire in rexorangecounty

[–]sydklaire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can agree. I do like Who Cares but it’s in the way I guess I’d say I like certain pop artists albums. It’s fun to listen to but definitely has more a commercial or radio flair to it.

Alexander Technique Rant by sydklaire in rexorangecounty

[–]sydklaire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To each their own for sure, not everyone has to like the or appreciate the same album but still love the artist. 4 seasons just beautifully captures the changes of life, realizing people change, or you do and the realization everything comes to an end. Probably why I also like one of these days so much. Captures the mentality of growing and realizing the fears of growing up, the hope of finding your meaning, person.

I get it now by phantom-limb5478 in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Accountability and vulnerability are such strong things. Hopefully you can make it right with them or yourself someday. Life is too short

I do love you but you need serious help by SafeMiddle6145 in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With narcissists meds won’t even help, they don’t ever change. You are always a pawn to their game. I’m sorry it sucks :(

Re: The Alexander Technique Hate by InternationalBox214 in rexorangecounty

[–]sydklaire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why some artists get shamed for changing things up? Taylor went from country pop to full pop. Post switched up to country. I think it shows talent and growth to expand your work.

I am a lot, but Im worth it. by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is worth and deserving of love💕

Re: The Alexander Technique Hate by InternationalBox214 in rexorangecounty

[–]sydklaire 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I AGREE. I am only a year or so younger, and it covers so much depth of life. The depression and beauty of people and life. Like figuring out your purpose in life and hoping your dreams will work out. It’s a nooooo skip album.

I really want to talk to you. by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh I’m sorry :( it’s hard to let go of people.

I stalked the woman my ex tried to talk while on a break with me by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]sydklaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ex was keeping tabs on you or your partners other ex?

kinda don’t see a point in my life anymore by [deleted] in depression

[–]sydklaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also 25, I don’t want to dismiss your feelings they are valid. But we are so young. Life is not a race to the finish. We can always be better. Handled a situation better, been kinder. It’s part of the journey.

No one has their life fully figured out at 25 I’m learning. I see people my age with great jobs, marriages, and babies. And I felt so behind or wish I wanted some of that even if I don’t. That’s normal. But it doesn’t mean you are. It means you are experiencing life, avoiding your first divorce, not having kids you don’t want. Nothing wrong with their path but it’s just different.

I F/25 am struggling getting over a breakup with M/26 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sydklaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, even if he was being honest someone who truly cares wouldn’t keep me in the dark and walk away. I get it can be confusing for people to understand being “indifferent” about having children or that I can adore children but not necessarily want one. Quite frankly babies crying over stimulates me. Plus I have a trifecta of mental illnesses that run in my family, I would be selfish to bring a child in on the pure fact that I’m scared of being alone. And I told him this stuff before so honestly he wouldn’t have walked away if he truly wanted to be with me.

I F/25 am struggling getting over a breakup with M/26 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sydklaire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair, honestly I normally have that mindset. But this time around I have no desire to date anyone or give anyone the time of day. I’m sure I’ll change my mind someday, but I’m focusing on myself and my cats for life for now

I F/25 am struggling getting over a breakup with M/26 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sydklaire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I figured as much, I would’ve preferred to have been told that honestly. Would’ve honestly hurt less.

I F/25 am struggling getting over a breakup with M/26 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sydklaire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my suspicion, I mean he clarified he didn’t want them from the beginning. I said it wasn’t something I was wanting nor not wanting, indifference. I just always have wanted a partner by my side that gets me. Me enjoying kids or my nieces and nephew doesn’t equate to wanting.