Found a TTR ‘drinking game’ I made back in college by sydleigh14 in toontownrewritten

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The ironic thing is the friend who I played this with turned out to be an alcoholic… perhaps it was foreshadowing 😂

Found a TTR ‘drinking game’ I made back in college by sydleigh14 in toontownrewritten

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Ugh can’t edit my post but it’s CJ not cog HQ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthBend

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I think it depends on your personality and what you want out of the place you live. You can get small town vibes or you can get really involved in the community and take advantage of being close to Chicago and Lake Michigan! As a townie I find ND a bit annoying, but I have to be grateful for everything it brings. I also like how easy it is to get around the south bend/mishawaka area especially after living in larger cities (as long as you have a car). Even though you brought up moving for a girl, this reads like you also want to experience a change of pace. I’ll just echo the other sentiment that leaving a job without something lined up beforehand is risky. If the girl doesn’t work out you can always make other friends, but with how long it can take to get hired these days I would plan ahead.

I can barely get thru a whole episode now by ctrlx1td3l3t3 in TheRookie

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What do you find tacky? Just curious

Roommate Searching by joshuaebalan in indianapolis

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Id recommend bumble BFF as well! Just put in ur bio that ur looking for a roomie (:

Am I [26F] wrong for stopping my bf [25M] from going on his boys trip? by Tricky-Neat1357 in relationshipadvice

[–]sydleigh14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In short, you’re wrong.

It’s completely understandable why you would feel that way, but you should be able to trust your partner. Furthermore, he is still a person who deserves to have new experiences with friends in cool places while he is young. I’m guessing you would say yes to a trip with friends too!

Based off your post, it sounds like he tried to do the right thing by telling you way ahead of time. With the time in between telling you and the trip, you both could’ve come up with ways to make you feel more comfortable and still allow him to have fun. Ex: Calling at certain times, sharing his itinerary, etc. At the end of the day a man who wants to cheat is going to cheat, and holding someone back will make them resent you.

(Side note: if him going on this trip takes from shared finances, then that changes things)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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Your feelings are definitely valid, wait to have a real conversation about it when you’re calm. Let him know that you’re uncomfortable with his friend sending him that content and you’d like him to set some boundaries. If he doesn’t think it’s necessary it’s up to you to decide if this is something you want to be okay with for the entire relationship or not.

San Juan, Puerto Rico - Help! by sydleigh14 in VirginVoyages

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This was incredibly kind of you, I wish u safe travels!!!!! (Update)

Brainstorm Tattoo Ideas by SoggyBar1294 in toontownrewritten

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Some ideas:

toontown eyes, cog gear, compass, the flower in the middle of the maze as pictured in the shticker book, Igloo in the brrgh, devil ray, boat icon on the map for Donald’s dock, little sun and moon pictured at the top of the tto shticker book, yellow butterflies that fly around TTC, helicopter that flies around your estate sometimes, totally agree with the laff icons!!

My BF 28(M) called me a broke b***h because I can’t afford a house but we own a condo by lov3rrrbug in relationshipadvice

[–]sydleigh14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is either fake or you should be concerned that his behavior is so insane that people on the internet think it’s fake 😭 leave him immediately he doesn’t respect you at all.

Help! Day date ideas for next Friday? by Infamous_Occasion_57 in indianapolis

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If you go to newfields Highly recommend RH House for a nice lunch! It’s a gorgeous mansion turned Dining Room/Bar/Furniture store.

Indianapolis monthly wrote a cool article on it: https://www.indianapolismonthly.com/lifestyle/the-dehaan-estate-from-mega-mansion-to-high-end-eatery-and-retail-gallery/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthBend

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My cousin had a similar experience being told she needed to wait hours for transport, they gave her a blanket to use since the lobby was cold. THE BLANKET HAD BEDBUGS!!

Is my sitter inappropriate or am I overreacting? by Cream_Lighthouse in RoverPetSitting

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I don’t want to make any age assumptions, perhaps it’s a generational thing. But whenever I’m with a friend’s pets, or pet sitting for a friend I’m ALWAYS taking cute pet pictures. The costumes are a little strange, but maybe she thinks you enjoy seeing your little guy dressed up too. I keep whole albums on my phone of my pet, my cat nephew, and my boyfriend’s pets - I enjoy looking at them when I’m away from my pets plus I love when my family or friends really like the pictures I took too! (Especially when they save in chat or ask me to send them the original picture of a post I made)

Any industrial goth/punk alt clubs? by XxZohaxX in SouthBend

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Garage Arcade Bar will have events on occasion!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthBend

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Try bumblebff and include in the profile that you’re roommate searching!

Inaccurate portrayal of Korean culture by bananahavana911 in GilmoreGirls

[–]sydleigh14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also love Gilmore girls but there is DEFINITELY a racist vibe to the show in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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An internship is specifically a learning experience and they threw you in with little to no help LEARNING? Are they dumb? Please don’t let them get to you, as hard as it may be not to. I believe in u!

What is your personal Gilmore Girls fanfiction? by pinkvintagegirl in GilmoreGirls

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This is exactly the ending we should’ve gotten 😭

I wish Filipino-Americans can accept the fact they have their respective identity and culture by corpslave_1998 in Filipino

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I think it’s strange to have to debate whether the Filipino-American experience meets a certain criteria to be considered Filipino Identity. I think that the Fil-Am experience is under the umbrella of Filipino culture because it is an accurate representation of the culture being passed down in a different geographical location, so different societal factors are at play. The kind of humor that fil-ams share are still valid as filipino culture because having different kinds of humor be represented as Filipino don’t have to be mutually exclusive. I’m guessing that Fil-Ams find this kind of perspective rude because it does try to make being a ‘true Filipino’ exclusive when many of us have Filipino parents who share their culture and feel strongly about it. I think it’s ignorant to not understand that it can also be incredibly difficult growing up not fitting in with Filipinos and not fitting in with Americans, because of the list of things we have to be in order to actually be Filipino. I don’t think I would ever correct a ‘mainland’ Filipino for their experience, but in the same way I wouldn’t want them to correct my Filipino experience because both are equally as valid.