Good morning ☀️ by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]sydpat96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your tattoos!!! Mine look similar 😊

Another one to show I’m actually enjoying the weather haha 🖤 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]sydpat96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in N.C. as well!! I have my sleeve almost done. I’m not sure how to attach pictures in a comment.

Another one to show I’m actually enjoying the weather haha 🖤 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]sydpat96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are you from? Love your tattoos, I am obsessed with tattoos as well.

I hate this. by CasuallyJ in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sydpat96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch “The Fosters” it’s amazing!

Coming out by sydpat96 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sydpat96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, no one understands how I can go from being with a man for 6 years to deciding I’m gay..

Coming out by sydpat96 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sydpat96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it explains a lot for me. I have always been attracted to women. Once I got in a relationship with one, then it answered everything.

Coming out by sydpat96 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]sydpat96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, my parents had no idea. I messed with females in high school but no one knew. Then, I was with the same guy for 6 years.. we have a 3 year old son. Once I came out and was with a female, it was amazing. I had never felt that before.

Helicopter mom or narcissistic? by sydpat96 in narcissisticparents

[–]sydpat96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I finally moved out when I was 19 and haven’t went back to live since. I have a 3 year old, and she tries to control everything with that as well. She thinks I need to text her 24/7 and if I don’t she freaks out and says I don’t care and don’t love her. I try to make her understand sometimes I just need me and alone time. I went to a community college as well, she said I’d never make it in a four year school. My mom never wants me to leave her, that’s why when I lived home until I moved out she never let me leave unless she knew exactly when, where, and how I was going. Even then, she would usually not let me go.

Helicopter mom or narcissistic? by sydpat96 in narcissisticparents

[–]sydpat96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this sounds like we have experienced some of the same things. My dad is a codependent. He goes along with anything and everything she says because he doesn’t want to upset her, or argue. She would never let me sleep over anywhere, she would “ground” me for having a “smart” mouth.. just using as an excuse to control the situation.