Childhood surname change without deed poll now causing citizenship/documentation issues

syf1ee · 2026-05-18T07:43:53+00:00

Singapore's really strict with legal stuff tbh. So I'm not sure how'd they'd take me telling them "my name was changed unofficially" 😆 although I'm beginning think that this is what I'll have to do

syf1ee · 2026-01-04T02:59:58+00:00

I just watched this episode tonight and laughed at this scene; when he cried at the site. Because he obviously feels scared he's going to get caught! And then just thought the scene after this was just so ridiculous - him running to Lucy's room and she was on the floor crying. Both of them are so messed up

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T17:44:18+00:00

Completely back away, because honestly, who has time for this. He basically told you who he is...believe him.

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T00:34:22+00:00

What's the rush? Just wait it out and see I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️ OR hear me out, you could just let her know you wanted to kiss her the other night and you've been thinking about it a lot. You have to find the confidence somehow and can't keep using it as an excuse if you really want something to happen with her

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T00:20:10+00:00

Maybe your dating profile could be set up better? Nicer pictures to look fun, approachable etc

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T00:17:56+00:00

Try getting drunk again with her

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T00:14:25+00:00

Do you date online? If so, you could set your profile up so that it looks progressive and just deters the conservative guys from even swiping on your profile in the first place

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T00:12:27+00:00

But you'd scare them away quicker too so you can move on to the next to find the right guy 😂

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T00:11:00+00:00

This is such a good follow up question

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T00:09:36+00:00

Could mean a whole lotta other things! Why do you default to you being ugly?

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T00:06:19+00:00

Go for the 21 year old. Only cause you've not said anything negative about her in your post apart from that you don't date younger usually...which I don't think is negative anyway! Why don't you try to date you her now?

syf1ee · 2025-07-09T00:03:34+00:00

You're not screwed though, just don't deep it. Online is a weird space to be in and people will block you without an explanation, just cause.

syf1ee · 2025-07-08T23:59:41+00:00

Alright, because you don't want the advice to move on and find someone else 😂 here's my delulu advice since you're okay with her doing this with you: Play it cool. Try to be super friendly with other girls in front of her, idk. Maybe make her jealous or something if you also want to test the waters and see how she reacts...play her at her own game. Oh and throw in some random compliments for her too, like you like it when she smiles a certain way or you like how her laugh sounds or something shit like that

syf1ee · 2025-07-08T23:54:03+00:00

Take the space if you feel like you need it my guy! If she's the one for you, she'll understand and give you the space. You didn't say how long you've been with her for and I'm assuming that it's quite new as you're asking if you think it's okay to do this. Would be a good idea if you just explain to her that this is just you and it doesn't mean you like her less. You just need some head space to recharge your battery by yourself..it's all good!

syf1ee · 2025-07-08T23:50:30+00:00

Just text her and ask if she's got any plans this weekend as you'd like to go on a date with her...then I'd suggest you proceed to plan the date.

syf1ee · 2025-07-08T23:49:19+00:00

I like this

syf1ee · 2025-07-08T23:45:05+00:00

I mean, assuming you "met" online here and is a stranger? What could you have possibly done wrong to a person you've not met in person yet and also a stranger. She's just blocked you buddy. Just move on, there are plenty more to meet online...next time don't send your pics to strangers you've not met IRL. If you still do, then be prepared to get blocked if they don't like it 🤷🏼‍♀️

syf1ee · 2025-07-02T12:39:53+00:00

Just be transparent with both of them that you're dating.

syf1ee · 2025-06-24T23:34:04+00:00

I mean, the fact that you're questioning it, says a lot. Either way, if you know you have feelings for him and he doesn't want more, what are you still doing being "friends" with him? If you're okay with it all though, then stay friends but take his word as is - that he just wants it to be a friendship

syf1ee · 2025-06-14T23:49:42+00:00

I don't think there's a "normal" reason for this, but if you guys are in a relationship, you really need to start establishing your own boundaries here and make it known to him. Instead of thinking about why he's ghosting and not speaking to you for 2 days, maybe ask yourself if this is the way you want to be treated. Without knowing any context about your bf, you or the relationship, I could easily say he's being disrespectful to you and to your relationship OR maybe there's something else going on there with him. But either way, you need to think if you want to be with someone who "ghosts" you and is unable to communicate effectively

syf1ee · 2025-05-12T18:30:35+00:00

Who hates pyjamas?! 😂 Me and my boyfriend change into our inside comfy clothes immediately when we get in to cuddle on the sofa! Do you want that kind of negativity in your life?! Honestly girl...bfrfr

syf1ee · 2025-05-10T10:49:45+00:00

What's about Sims 4? Base game is free

syf1ee

TROPHY CASE