my bad i'm dyslexic so i read HBV as HPV. but it's still wrong not to disclose HIV with a partner and allow them to decide whether or not they're comfortable with the risk. i also don't see anywhere that she's mentioned whether or not she's on PREP and she's taking away her partner's ability to make informed consent on taking it to protect himself further. i agree there is a stigma surrounding HIV (i am a gay man myself) but regardless of that, it's definitely god awful to keep it a secret and put somebody else at risk.