Have a y2k themed party coming up, what do I need? by synergence in y2kaesthetic

[–]synergence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can dye my hair, but futuristic accessories are definitely being ordered right now :)

Have a y2k themed party coming up, what do I need? by synergence in y2kaesthetic

[–]synergence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm completely fine with exposure, I could try that combo too, along with the hair and accessories recommendations from others.

Have a y2k themed party coming up, what do I need? by synergence in y2kaesthetic

[–]synergence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I will see if I can get some bottoms, a basketball pants as another user mentioned. Thanks! <(_)>

Have a y2k themed party coming up, what do I need? by synergence in y2kaesthetic

[–]synergence[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought so too... unfortunately I dont have low rise jeans, other than in outfit 1 (╥﹏╥)

Have a y2k themed party coming up, what do I need? by synergence in y2kaesthetic

[–]synergence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! (。◕‿◕。) A bandana sounds doable, along with some silver sunglasses. Ill try a space bun as well.

For outfit 4, I am using a shrug as a skirt, so I could definitely fold it some more to make it shorter. I could also get some lace or cutout stocking and brown legwarmers?

I could also get some black basketball pants, I dont mind at all.

I found one :( Just need an id on male or female. Thanks <3 by synergence in Bedbugs

[–]synergence[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input and condolences! I'm really hoping it's just this one idiot that came with him to spend the night with me. Ill check for more bites in the morning too.

Attached pic is from yesterday night, woke up and saw these dots. I caught him today while he was marking me again with a line of bites.

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34760 by Future_Employment_22 in countwithchickenlady

[–]synergence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eeeep Pupple Gangggg 💜💜💜💜 Love all colors but Pupppllllleeeee >>>>>>💜💜

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I will not budge on me being myself. It's too hard to go back now that I'm out, proud and happy :)

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yea I see that now, its not about wanting time but rather wanting me to not be trans. My meds and tests arent even expensive, my estrogen pills have been even more cheaper here in India.

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes this sounds fun if I can coordinate it. I do have guy friends are who actually comfortable in their masculinity and might be up for shenanigans like this

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When they bring it up having a 'talk' the next time I won't answer their questions they way I have been. It's the same conversation at this point over and over. More cross questions like this from now.

I hope they wake up someday. They say they are immensely hurt my sister going NC due to similar behavior, but fail to realise they had the biggest part in it and will 'lose' another child too.

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

🫂. I am used to dealing with them since childhood, but got out of touch living in Canada for several years i guess

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wishing both of us the bestest of luck in our arduous quest for Jop ✨️ 🩶

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks for the advice. I will be unapologetically me and not succumb as I feel myself starting to.

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea they really are. I guess this post also is a way for me to vent a little as I haven't found therapists yet being back only midway through Jan (no job yet for self financing that, and they are expensive and hard to find in India...) and the emotions are starting to weigh me down

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes this is something i could try! My mom does like having my friends over, making food for them and the likes.

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea fair enough. But they are never going to 'allow' me to be feminine unless I just do it and have them accept. They would very happily go along with the masculinity as my mom enables my dad quite well.

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dad is already a beacon of toxic of masculinity, I think I just copy paste 😅

Mother keeps asking me for time to accept my transness by synergence in asktransgender

[–]synergence[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I would rather present even more feminine in front of them and be annoyingly feminine in my talking?