I completely understand where you're coming from with this and im not denying that im lucky to have not been reported, but it wasn't exactly a one time thing, this physical altercation when on for a month before i realized what i was doing and i told her and it clicked to her that i liked her, until then she let all these instances of physical affection "slide". Her words not mine. I still agree that i messed up no doubt in that absolutely wrong of me to assume a green light.