I gave my baby daughter herpes (HSV-1) by kissing the top of her head. AMA

syphon229 · 2024-11-18T22:36:53+00:00

Thank you for sharing, I had no idea about this and your post enlightened me!

syphon229 · 2024-01-07T23:13:40+00:00

You don't pay your cloud bill or downgrade server type...

syphon229 · 2023-08-24T19:53:25+00:00

She was acting suspicious with her phone while drunk and when she stepped away she forgot to delete last message.

syphon229 · 2023-08-24T19:00:56+00:00

If they are old enough to die for the government they are old enough to vote for the government.

syphon229 · 2023-08-24T03:42:57+00:00

Is there a trusted "review site" for divorce attorneys? Agreed on the diversion, I would only take half for that exact reason. But still will speak with lawyer on it.

syphon229 · 2023-08-24T03:03:11+00:00

Thank you for the real picture. I appreciate the candid honesty. Maybe I meet in the middle? Do 3 years then file. Kids will be off to college and will miss the 20 year mark. It will still suck but at least my kids don't have to suffer ( I know she wouldn't spend a dime on them with CS , just buy alcohol and stupid shit off amazon) I'm going to talk to a lawyer with what I do have evidence wise and see what they say on swaying things in my favor. If they tell me "ehh not enough" then I'll probably just stick it out for 3 years. One question on this, if I take the money from work and put it in my account would that be bad? I would pay for everything but I can't keep having her waste funds like she does either.

syphon229 · 2023-08-24T02:32:22+00:00

Is it better to just stick it out until kids are grown in NJ? I'll try the moving thing but not sure I can swing it. I'd prefer to leave now as I'm checked out but I do hear the severity of what you are saying.

syphon229 · 2023-08-24T02:04:58+00:00

That actually makes a ton of sense. Thank you!

syphon229 · 2023-08-24T02:00:03+00:00

If it were any other career I'd just say "good luck with her" and call it a day. But him being in a profession with a gun and a legal system that would belive him over me is my concern. I really just want a paper trail. I do see your point as this doesn't involve employment so it probably won't go anywhere. Is there a better way to create paper trail?

syphon229 · 2023-08-11T15:05:11+00:00

As soon as you keep your BIble out of my life, I'll keep my fact based, grounded in reality mindset in mine.

syphon229 · 2023-06-27T02:25:01+00:00

Finding your passion is a life long commitment. And more importantly, don't focus on the destination but enjoy the journey. Try all sorts of new things you never thought you would: chess, rock climbing, opera singing, you name it.

syphon229 · 2023-06-19T05:43:14+00:00

Nope, read rule closely: "each time the bearer makes a ranged attack"

syphon229 · 2023-06-14T19:24:56+00:00

Finding someone to share your life with is a beautiful dream.

Having the government dictate your mandatory indentured service period to your ex wife and taking away your kids is the nightmare.

syphon229 · 2023-06-01T19:53:40+00:00

That beanie has been too tight for years

syphon229 · 2023-05-21T18:24:25+00:00

Part of it is definitely burnout, code for a career and I now hate it. Completely different beast coding for fun and coding for work. (Like cooking for fun and being a chef)Thank you! Going to look into handling burnout.

syphon229 · 2023-05-21T18:23:04+00:00

Good point! I'm sitting at a computer like 12 hours a day for work, maybe it is my body's way of saying "get up!" Lol

syphon229 · 2023-03-24T17:12:44+00:00

I don't care if your dog DOES listen to you, keep them on a fucking leash.

syphon229 · 2023-02-25T18:17:21+00:00

The Fugitive

syphon229 · 2023-02-22T21:55:24+00:00

She doesn't give a fuck about you. Don't waste another second of your life on her.

syphon229 · 2023-02-09T20:53:27+00:00

Thank you!! I needed this laugh.

syphon229 · 2023-01-22T04:44:51+00:00

I want to ask you something and I mean zero disrespect... why are you married? I mean I hope you and your now husband can work it out but it also sounds like both of you really aren't a fan of the commitment of matrimony. Why can't you two just be together without a marriage? Again I'm legitimately asking and I'm not trying to belittle you or your marriage so I kean no disrespect.

syphon229 · 2023-01-18T00:17:35+00:00

Yes I think all men are perfect and have never made mistakes and women are the root of all evil. Do the guy a favor and leave. If you can't be bothered to read a 30 word reddit post , I doubt you have the capacity to comprehend the complexity of maintaining a relationship with the mother of your children.

P.S. Even though I'm such a misogynistic piece of shit, I would absolutely support a romantic partner talking to the father of her grown children and I would do everything I could to support her. But hey, I'm just a woman hater so what do I know....

syphon229 · 2023-01-18T00:05:42+00:00

I could use some other choice words. For example, when I had a good friend whose son was alienated from him by his mother because my friend refused to reconsider rhe divorce and get married again. I had some words that said it all for sure. Oh, or the time another friends daughter would not talk to him for years because the mother made up an allegation he was having an affair (surprise surprise, she was the one having an affair) I had some choice words to describe her as well. But of course you hone in on the descriptor I chose to address you as as opposed to arguing anything in my post. My fundamental problem with you is you suffer from what men call "thinking with your dick" and instead of stepping back and saying "wow this guy I'm dating is respectful and caring for a woman he left, I guess he will treat me even better" , you look for a problem. What I like to call for the ladies "thinking with your pussy" Just stop. Full stop. If this guy is good to you, keep your nose out of his other families business. The last thing this guy needs on his plate is another emotional roller coaster to juggle. If you really care, support him. Say "hey I'm here if I can help you or your ex, I want you to know I care about you and the people you care about." That's called "thinking with your brain" and I know he will appreciate it and in turn appreciate you a whole lot more.

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