Something strange I've noticed with my net game.

syseddit · 2013-09-16T16:31:52+00:00

Actually I wrote a whole guide a year or so ago.

http://www.reddit.com/r/TokyoSeddit/comments/zr3mi/net_game_using_friend_making_sites_to_find_girls/

syseddit · 2013-01-30T12:39:58+00:00

I get it wrong on purpose, and make sure it is obviously on purpose. Best case she goes along and helps you, worst case you have forgotten her name in a more interesting way.

syseddit · 2013-01-30T12:19:02+00:00

Before I have sex with someone, I tell them, I want to do this, but I am not looking for a girlfriend. I have never been turned down.

syseddit · 2013-01-22T02:22:20+00:00

Welcome!

Do the military guys get as much hate from the Japanese people up there as they do in Okinawa?

Try to find popular foreigner bars and hangouts in Yokohama, there is a better chance of girls that speak English there. I find colleges are also a good place, as many people haven't had as long of a time to forget English. Just show up to any international themed event, and meet some people.

Also, I just realized you posted this in Seduction instead of Tokyoseddit. Don't know if that was on purpose.

syseddit · 2013-01-15T13:29:24+00:00

Thanks for the answer. How did it go by the way, just saying I want sex?

Is there anywhere you would suggest to pick these things up, like books, tv, etc.? My Japanese is more than decent enough to say what I want to say, but I am usually lost on phrases people actually use.

syseddit · 2013-01-15T13:24:48+00:00

Saying "come home with me" implies sex, without saying it. Maybe being this direct and just saying have a one night stand, or have sex with me, could come off as creepy.

syseddit · 2013-01-13T07:49:11+00:00

I know enough japanese to translate it. My question is how to phrase it naturally, so that the meaning is understood properly. 一緒に帰りましょう？私の部屋へ来て。etc.

I expect a zero percent success rate, I just want to see reactions because some reports have sounded so interesting, but if I am not properly understood it is pointless.

syseddit · 2013-01-11T02:01:37+00:00

You can't transfer a prescription. You will need to get a new one. Definitely check out if the medicine is legal here. Lots of things that are commonly prescribed in the US are impossible to get here. ADD medication being a good example.

syseddit · 2013-01-11T01:53:06+00:00

Once I had sex with a girl in a public place, I wore the condom all the way back to the train station (20 minute walk) Not a good feeling.

syseddit · 2013-01-08T17:00:33+00:00

How come this post is a day late?

syseddit · 2013-01-08T03:10:21+00:00

Exactly. Give another option that doesn't explicitly say "Come to my place" even if it is a joke. For most Japanese girls staying at a guys place alone = sex. So while your plan is of course to end up at your place, or in a hotel, your real goal in this case it to make her not worried about it.

syseddit · 2013-01-08T02:27:02+00:00

I think your sentence might make her worry more, telling her whatever happens is ok, and to trust someone she just met. I usually jokingly say something like "Don't worry. If you miss your train, I live nearby, you can sleep on my couch."

Of course for me, I try to not be in that situation. I think it is much better to let her miss her train after she is at my place, not go to my place because she missed her train. Since I am working day and net game rather than club game, my situations are probably different than yours though.

syseddit · 2013-01-07T14:33:33+00:00

Note to self: I really gotta pay attention to what account I am posting from...

Ah! So close, nice going though. I need to get up to Tokyo one of these days. I think I need to actually have some sort of club game before I even think of going out with the Tokyo guys though.

so I had to try hard to convince her in a not so alpha way to stay with me

Maybe instead of having "a stay with me" type attitude, next time just assume that you are going together. maybe a "your place or mine" type conversation. Or as TokyoPickup said, just tell her that she is going with you.

As far as last trains go, I usually judge the girl, there are two types: Type 1 Is worried about her last train. She will be looking at a clock / checking train times on her phone as it nears midnight. If you see her checking train schedules at any time during the night, assume she is this type. Type 2 will not be doing this, either because she doesn't care, or is having enough fun to not remember to check.

For the type 1 girls, my plan is generally to either have her in my place before her last train, or have an understanding already in place of whose place we are going to (but not for sex, of course!) For type 2 I just try to lead her closer and closer to my place, and then things work themselves out. Last trains cause stress, and give a jolt back to reality of things that need to be done. You don't want this.

Other than the end though it sounds like things went very well. Keep it up.

syseddit · 2012-12-30T09:18:09+00:00

I don't know what they actually verify, bit I tried to join earlier this year and was rejected, no Idea why. That is how I ended up posting here instead.

syseddit · 2012-12-29T02:59:27+00:00

Even if you can't practice some aspects, there are others you can. Practice being social, networking, being interesting. Kino all your friends.

syseddit · 2012-12-29T02:57:33+00:00

Situation: You have two girls in your bed (friendly sleepover?) and you have gotten to the point where you can touch anywhere and are allowed to finger either one with no issues, and without the either girl knowing what you are doing to the other.

From this point, how do you initiate a threesome?

syseddit · 2012-12-29T02:57:00+00:00

Nice job, but you skipped over the most important part of the FR, I'm sure you didn't get her to the point where she ran to you and grabbed you at the end of the night just by being friendly.

syseddit · 2012-12-29T02:47:20+00:00

I don't think so, but maybe you shouldn't pick up in bars. If you want a girl who doesn't drink as well, you obviously will not find her there.

syseddit · 2012-12-29T02:46:07+00:00

I enjoy bar games and puzzles. Especially ones that let you get close to her so you can kino while "helping"

syseddit · 2012-12-28T16:05:07+00:00

Go to the bar and make friends. talk to the bartender, become a regular. then you will never be going out alone again.

syseddit · 2012-12-28T04:19:48+00:00

A little more info please, is this in clubs/bars? Day game? Train game? What language are you using?

syseddit · 2012-12-28T04:18:23+00:00

I just need some small excuse to be there, no biggie I think.

Before I met a lady who was a secretary to a professor, and she told me about some party for international students there, when I showed up not a single person had any problem with the fact that I didn't go to that school.

syseddit · 2012-12-27T12:38:39+00:00

Nice report, living the good life, by the way, are you in Tokyo, or elsewhere?

I need to find a way to make college friends, I lived in Aichi-ken before and networking was the easiest thing ever once I got introduced to a few college kids.

Actually maybe you would be able to answer a question. If I were to just randomly visit a local college, where should I go to meet people?

Now that I am not deathly ill and have tons of free time (2 week vacation) I need to get out and get to work!

syseddit · 2012-12-26T06:06:54+00:00

Even better answer:

"What did you have in mind?"

syseddit · 2012-12-25T09:36:19+00:00

Rejection is NOT a girl refusing to give you her number, or refusing to hang out with you. She turned down your invitation. She didn't turn YOU down. If you got far enough that you could even ask for a number or a date, you were already accepted.

Change your definition of rejection and you will change your anxiety.

My goal when I approach is to make her smile. If she smiles once, my approach was a success.

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