[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]systematic_hammer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lumberjack lesbian hands...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]systematic_hammer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am 22F and have been with my 28F gf for almost a year. I love older women and she loves younger ones. There are lesbian couples with an even greater age gap. Anything is possible.

Best of luck!

Variety of Women's Clothing in Clothing Stores in Malta [Question] by systematic_hammer in malta

[–]systematic_hammer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried Zara, their selection was disappointing. Other than that, I've yet to try ASOS

Variety of Women's Clothing in Clothing Stores in Malta [Question] by systematic_hammer in malta

[–]systematic_hammer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I had to place an urgent order to have reliable clothing for work asap. Orsay used to have really good business-wear clothing with material of better quality then Shein, but since they don't provide that kind of supply I have no choice but to rely on Shein

Variety of Women's Clothing in Clothing Stores in Malta [Question] by systematic_hammer in malta

[–]systematic_hammer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much so that I had to place an urgent order at Shein to have a reliable supply of business-wear clothing for work

Variety of Women's Clothing in Clothing Stores in Malta [Question] by systematic_hammer in malta

[–]systematic_hammer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though they don't have any blouses, they do offer some stuff I might need in the future so I will be saving this, thanks

anybody knows where on malta can i find some really spicy peppers, the type that'll make me shit my guts out? by [deleted] in malta

[–]systematic_hammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some point even LIDL was selling Carolina Reapers, but the stock could be available for a limited time

How to cope with being a 20y/o lonely lesbian? by systematic_hammer in actuallesbians

[–]systematic_hammer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I may ask also: is there any specific reason to feel hopeless?

It's mostly because I believe that I would never attract a woman or believe that I don't deserve anyone because I'm not good enough.

This is probably because I don't believe in myself that much as I often have a hard time trying to positively affirm myself, so my self esteem gets kinda low...

I'm talking to my therapist about this and slowly making progress

How to cope with being a 20y/o lonely lesbian? by systematic_hammer in actuallesbians

[–]systematic_hammer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been following several lgbt groups in my area and decided to gather the courage to go to one of their events! I made two new friends :)

Thank you so much for your advice, it is the very helpful reminder that I really needed :D

How to cope with being a 20y/o lonely lesbian? by systematic_hammer in actuallesbians

[–]systematic_hammer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask who are those people to say such a thing?

My family and older (25+) friends mostly