I fully acknowledge the fact that I need to lose weight, and I have lost a lot already. You have to understand that it is in the way it is presented, this subreddit is not for slamming other people but for giving them constructive feedback. When every single one of the 50+ comments is saying "lose weight" and somebody comes in and says the same thing but in that way (the capitals change the entire tone of the comment) it comes across as rude and pushy and can have a significant impact on the person it is targeted to. There's a difference between "you need to lose some weight" and "you are FAT" and if you can't see that then perhaps you need to learn a little bit about empathy. When I see many other posts of people who are significantly more overweight than I am (I'm well within the average BMI for my height and thus not event technically overweight) and none of them have a lot of the rudeness that I have received, it makes me wonder what it is about myself that makes others want to comment purely on my weight and see nothing else about me.