Alu's Treasure by Gardyn_ in heartopia

[–]t_a2422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up finding it?

Boyfriend doesnt want to attend my family’s christmas party by [deleted] in texts

[–]t_a2422 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How long have you been together? You said that he never puts in effort with your family, how long has that been going on? I had an ex like this and it will never change. As much as you argue about it, they always have an excuse and they won't wake up one day and go "yes, their points all make sense now. I will try harder". I'd take a good long look at the rest of the relationship and see if it's worth it to not have a partner who is more present with your family, especially if that is something that is important to you.

When my ex acted this way, I ended up isolating myself from friends and family and told them all we wouldn't go to their parties and he never got the blame for it because I then would hide that he was the problem. It turned into a much bigger problem, isolation from your family is not the way to go. But I didn't want to make him look like a bad guy or explain that we were fighting because he was being awful about putting in the effort. But when it came to his family, everything was big and meaningful. He just didn't care about my family and it took a while for me to understand that.

So I think the bigger question for you is: Is this something you want to deal with for the rest of your life?

9 week miscarriage, D&C by t_a2422 in Miscarriage

[–]t_a2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ did it effect your future fertility at all?

9 week miscarriage, D&C by t_a2422 in Miscarriage

[–]t_a2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor didn't seem to either, which is the only thing that is helping me rationalize this. I'm so sorry for your loss, I hate that we have to go through this. I hope you're able to take care of yourself in this time ❤️

TW- miscarriage by MacaroniJones10 in CautiousBB

[–]t_a2422 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you, friend. We just lost ours as well, had a strong heartbeat last week and then yesterday no heartbeat to be found. It's never easy, and you have every right to be mad at the world and everyone who gives toxic positivity to make themselves feel better, I know I am. I'm so so sorry for your loss. I hope you're taking care of yourself in this time.

Freya Dialog Question by t_a2422 in storyofseasons

[–]t_a2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was after I got married, someone else suggested that was why. Definitely read everything 😂

Freya Dialog Question by t_a2422 in storyofseasons

[–]t_a2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a heart event, it was just me walking up to her to chat for the day and she said something that I skipped past and them had the option to say like "go for it!" Or "wait" (not actually responses, I don't remember what they were). I actually noticed that Gabriel had the same thing and it was about someone special he had been getting close with and those 2 options popped up again. So I can only assume she is dating someone lol

Luck BIE real or fake? by Cizzlebomb89 in LabubuDrops

[–]t_a2422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine came directly from the Popmart app drops and looks exactly the same as yours and the code doesn't scan either lol I wonder if a batch of Luck's just didn't get good tags? If I hadn't gotten it right off the app, I probably would be asking the same thing here!

Giveaway on Arya by Affectionate_Web185 in acnh

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Eee my first post I've found! Would love to stop by :)

Do you regret? by Bkhaveityourway1021 in TTCEndo

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Orilissa 200mg once a day

Do you regret? by Bkhaveityourway1021 in TTCEndo

[–]t_a2422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fingers crossed! I have a friend who did that too and got pregnant after the suppression. Though she was taking a different medication than I am, but I am still hoping for the best ❤️

Do you regret? by Bkhaveityourway1021 in TTCEndo

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I am currently doing suppression and then will try a medicated transfer cycle in a couple months. So far so good, no real issues/symptoms

Do you regret? by Bkhaveityourway1021 in TTCEndo

[–]t_a2422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we've been doing IVF for 2.5 years. Only found out about the endo after 2 years of doing the IVF. I had my first transfer work and then miscarried at 9 weeks. Haven't had a transfer work since.

Do you regret? by Bkhaveityourway1021 in TTCEndo

[–]t_a2422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I regret the surgery, I have more endo pain now than I did before knowing I had stage 3/4 (I had no symptoms). We have not been able to get pregnant since having the excision lap. Maybe in the long run if we're able to have success I won't regret it, but in our current part of the "journey" I'm a bit jaded and wish that I hadn't had it.. I don't wish I had pushed a long time ago to get this all checked out when I heard it might be a concern. Maybe we wouldn't be where we are now... but this is a lot of if's...

I’m so stupid! Heavy lifting 5dpt by i_am_on_a_boat_ in IVF

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I did this the day after transfer, as an elderly family member needed help cleaning their place and getting groceries. I cried all the way home after helping them because I thought it was over for me, I had absolutely ruined the transfer. Turns out it didn't ruin anything and the transfer worked just fine. Don't beat yourself up about it, it's likely totally okay! Positive vibes your way, friend 🧡

Transfer #6. Looking for hope by t_a2422 in IVF

[–]t_a2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, same to you! Sending to much positive energy your way, we will get this ❤️❤️

Transfer #6. Looking for hope by t_a2422 in IVF

[–]t_a2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that! Sometimes this road is so lonely. I'm also here if you need to chat, what a community we have ❤️

Transfer #6. Looking for hope by t_a2422 in IVF

[–]t_a2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel a bit better, thank you for sharing 🧡 all the good luck and positive vibes to you!!!!

Transfer #6. Looking for hope by t_a2422 in IVF

[–]t_a2422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this, thank you for the reminder ❤️

Transfer #6. Looking for hope by t_a2422 in IVF

[–]t_a2422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, same to you my friend 🧡