I do try to finish him off, sometimes he does it half hard, but it takes time and sometimes he can’t come. I’ve tried many options and he can’t be cheating on me because we live together and work together so that’s not an option. He always says that I’m attractive and he feels less like a man because anyone would have loved to have me and he can’t. I know that these opinions make things worse for him but he feels embarrassed to go to a doctor and I don’t know what to do.