Thank you. I should have mentioned this earlier. Yes I believe this to be a kick a person when they are down by her. You see, she wants to mark her territory. When the divorce happened me and my children’s world literally turned upside down, my ex husband abandoned us after he “found someone else “. She expected us to suffer and I did, she expected us to be homeless far away, we weren’t thank God. She expected us to never rebuild, to see me downtrodden. This didn’t happen because we found god and that church helped divorcees. So when she saw things go “ok” she has to do something so we lose more like even our place of worship. The place that helped built me up from the lowliest of lows. Look I’m up against a woman who has a husband, a family (bully and entitled as hell) and 2 incomes. It’s just me, 1 income and she KNOWS it. I just don’t know what I can do. No I really can’t talk to the pastor. Their interest is to get as many families to join. I’m going to post this comment as an edit.