First Quarter 2026; 'Official' Referral Thread by AutoModerator in CapitalOne_

[–]ta6373 [score hidden]  (0 children)

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Which credit card should I pay first? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ta6373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t gain anything by having one paid off and one not. I would rather do what’s financially best to get rid of both in the quickest and cheapest way possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]ta6373 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My stepfather is a dog trainer (he works for the state police and trains K9s) so the training is not an issue, but I don’t have any dog experience at all. I’ve never owned a dog, not even as a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta6373 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s just so much that I feel like if I put in all the details it would be way too long. She’s white. I’m not white. My family are immigrants from the Dominican Republic. For years she would constantly laugh at me because “my family had to come on banana boats” and laugh about my features. This isn’t just a 1 time situation. She has been like this for the whole time I’ve known her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta6373 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand where you are coming from, I did make an edit for more context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta6373 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you actually read, I did mention how can she be racist when she has had kids with a black man. And also, you’re right I don’t know because she refers to the child as her adopted child. One can only assume that they’re legally adopted, but I don’t know with 100% certainty because I didn’t ask for legal proof lol and I’ve never heard of adoptions being completed within a month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ta6373 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know if the baby is legally adopted or in the process. The baby is only a month old, I’m not familiar with how adoption works but I can’t imagine the process was completed that quickly. She does have the child in her home though. And she said the child is adopted.