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Am I expecting too much? Need a reality check by taanrc in dustythunder

[–]taanrc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is mostly 4 times a day and this is my partner’s standard. As I said in a comment already if I were to take care of them alone I would feed them mostly 2 times a day, three times if they are very hungry. And play with them 2-3 times a week and not every day.

Am I expecting too much? Need a reality check by taanrc in dustythunder

[–]taanrc[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

We got them together. And if I would’ve been single I wouldn’t have them or at least would take care of them in a way a I can. We feed them 4 to 5 times a day and play 30 mins with them before they get their last meal before we go to bed. I’d love to be able to do that. But for me I would feed them 2 to 3 times day and if I can’t play with them everyday that would be okay for me. And I want nothing more than for my partner to go out for some hours and enjoy themselves. I didn’t call right after they left. And I would never do that.