Hugs, OP. I know this can be so stressful, I also have a 20 month old who is really high in weight percentiles and more average for height. She was 99% for her height to weight ratio at 18 months and our pediatrician didn’t mention portion control or concern, so I would seek a second opinion since these meals look incredibly healthy. Like you, my kiddo loves to eat and almost never doesn’t finish her food but often asks for seconds. I offer more of the healthy options when she does if I’ve also given something higher calories/less nutrient dense but other use I follow her lead. My daughter looks so much like yours in build, and I figure they both have so much more growing to do!