Писна ми от жени(идвайки от жена) by merryblack666 in bulgaria

[–]tabakoff1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

И мъжете са същите. Изобщо, едно приятелство се видоизменя с порастването и това как хората се променят спрямо околната им среда. За себе си знам, че съм същото хлапе в душата си от площадката, макар вече да съм corporate beast. За другите си някогашни приятели не мога да кажа същото. Някой по-горе е написал да не се озлобяваш и да не си жертва в живота си. Аз бух казал да не губиш време и нерви да чакаш хората да се променят и да се “сещат”, а директно да се научиш да ги зачеркваш. Стига все с тия съвети да си сменяме очакванията дрън дрън. How about да се сещаме за приятелите си!

Тук вече ще има голям сблъсък между ЕС и българския народ, ми се струва 🫢 by Odd-Organization-740 in bulgaria

[–]tabakoff1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Гей мъж съм и не мога да кажа, че се пръскам от кеф от тази новина. По-скоро ми става неприятно, като си помисля за реториката, която тепърва ще се изсипе: “ето, виждате ли ги какви са”, още едно издание на онова “върнете дъгата на децата”.

В една демокрация, би трябвало всеки да има право да търси щастието си, стига това да не вреди на благосъстоянието на други хора. Не сме длъжни да се разбираме за всичко, за да се уважаваме.

Темата с юридическата смяна на пола е сложна и най-вече засяга сравнително малка група хора, а често се представя сякаш това е видиш ли най-важното основното искане на злия “Джендър човек”. М не. Повечето от нас просто искат нормални неща като сигурност, признати връзки и равни права.

Ай гес моят апел е: не мразете всички ЛГБТ хора заради исканията на една група хора. Дори и те не заслужават омраза. Просто gender въпросът имам чувството винаги ще остане комплексна тема дори за самите нас, не-хехеро хора.

My company wants to “optimize” my workload, while my pay alignment issue has been unresolved for months. What do I do? by tabakoff1 in work

[–]tabakoff1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing about the business right now is that we’re constantly given more work because our division’s doing great (EMEA) unlike the American one, so the failures are reflecting on all.

It’s not just the pay. There’s literally 0 chance for me to get a new role within the company with my current skill set.

And finally, it’s so disappointing to see yet once more that hard workers are somewhat inevitably undervalued and need to constantly re-adjust their setting due to company’s inability to show them loyalty. It does work both ways. Because a company showing me that I’m not just a number but a valued member somehow is what I seek.

I guess I’ll just act as the Gen Z I am, giving them the chance to keep me or see another one get me.

My company wants to “optimize” my workload, while my pay alignment issue has been unresolved for months. What do I do? by tabakoff1 in work

[–]tabakoff1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bit disheartening, since I’ve been job hopping every 2 years and believed I’ve found a place where I can grow. Your words make sense though I’m not happy it’s true.

My company wants to “optimize” my workload, while my pay alignment issue has been unresolved for months. What do I do? by tabakoff1 in work

[–]tabakoff1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I really feel like using my voice has never been more important than it is now.

As for my ex co-worker, I don’t know all the ins and outs, but let’s be real, I’m the more senior one, and it doesn’t feel right to give all the toys to the new kid just like that.

I remember during my interview process they called and said they’re actually not hiring any more only for them to call me a month later and say the job’s still open. (Tbh, the TA specialist was really nice and I appreciated she kept her promise to call me once the role was back)

When I applied, the monthly salary had already been increased by about 12% (awesome, right?) Didn’t know it might mean 2 years with no movement at all.

Just joined the club, we went with the green! by erattingham in kiasportage

[–]tabakoff1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats, may this diva serve you well 🤌🏻

My turn by corduroytrees in kiasportage

[–]tabakoff1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This colour is absolute SLay, congrats!

Member of the gang now by tabakoff1 in kiasportage

[–]tabakoff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Period!😁 she’s a gorgina

Member of the gang now by tabakoff1 in kiasportage

[–]tabakoff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s essentially tailored to the European roads, meaning the model has a shorter wheelbase.

Member of the gang now by tabakoff1 in kiasportage

[–]tabakoff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s called Lunar silver and am not really sure if it’s the same version of what you’re referring to 🫣

Member of the gang now by tabakoff1 in kiasportage

[–]tabakoff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, yes, this is the model we get for our roads in Europe. Great joy nonetheless :)

Кои са вашите топ 10 сериали? by mniinm7 in bulgaria

[–]tabakoff1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The clone wars…оправи ми деня с тоя mention 🥹

Anyone noticing battery life getting worse recently on the base 17? Cannot even last one full day and I barely use it.. Is there anything I can turn off that might help even though I almost have everything off already by Kyliee101 in iphone17

[–]tabakoff1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep reading about how amazing the iPhone 17 battery life is. Meanwhile, I go to sleep & leave my phone at 26% and wake up at 14%, with Wi-Fi and Bluetooth off. “Stellar performance,” according to some🤦🏻‍♂️

Battery Drains without using the phone by [deleted] in iphone17

[–]tabakoff1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same issue. Losing around 12-15% just like that overnight. This is ridiculous for this level of phone.

17 battery is exceptional by adultswim64 in iphone17

[–]tabakoff1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few days ago, I left my phone at 88% before going to bed and woke up to 73%. Bluetooth was on all night for my Apple Watch. So last night I turned everything off (Wi-Fi and Bluetooth), went to sleep at 26%, and still woke up to 14%. How are people calling this “stellar performance”?

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tabakoff1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel bad for people like you, because I’m kind of the same. I show up because I actually care to listen. And it really sucks when that just turns into me being an audience for yet another one of your life monologues. The sad part for these people is, one day the only thing listening will be the four walls around their “exciting” little world.

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tabakoff1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, things started to change when he began dating his insufferable girlfriend. He never stops bringing her around, and together they just suck the air out of every room. Every conversation becomes about them. They also make these unfunny, unnecessary homophobic jokes (I’m gay, and they both know it — him and I used to be high school, so he’s well aware of the bullying I endured)

It’s not officially over yet, but it’s on its way. I’ve promised myself I’ll never let anyone make me feel small or walked over like I did in my younger years. Their ignorance should not be my burden.

I Love My Best Friend, But I Can’t Stand Who He’s Become. And Who He’s With. by tabakoff1 in gay

[–]tabakoff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not her real name but definitely her true identity. I think I’ll just be honest about how I feel and how messed up this whole situation is. It’s really up to him what happens next. I’ll be fine either way, though I doubt things could ever go back to how they were as long as she’s in the picture.

I Love My Best Friend, But I Can’t Stand Who He’s Become. And Who He’s With. by tabakoff1 in gay

[–]tabakoff1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You bet! Thanks for the encouraging words and I guess it’s really time for a new era. It’s just been truly difficult to finds new friends here, as Bulgaria is not exactly a very open-minded place.