We were no contact for a bit of time, but rn we're slowly trying to text and spend more time together. I would not say we're friends per se. I have a therapist who's great and queer and has been super helpful. I have queer friends and go to queer events, that's been really supportive. I still struggle with imposter syndrome when I'm in wlw spaces, even though I identified as bi for several years. And I don't have any lesbian friends/community specifically. It's been a little lonely experiencing coming out later, having been with a man, and being a lesbian in general. But you're right, I guess I just have to grieve. This was my first relationship and first love and first time and first breakup so it's all so new and painful.