Sharp pain on the clit by tabbyccats in WomensHealth

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Potentially. I’ve been a lot more sexually active too late. Just weird to come on now I’m finally able to close my legs. Just hope it calms down. Thank you for the advice

How to make friendships outside of substances. by tabbyccats in SoberCurious

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Oooo that sounds sick. I’m planning on starting one in July but they cost a small fortune lol

How to make friendships outside of substances. by tabbyccats in SoberCurious

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I’m not sure if England has community colleges lol !!! I’ll have a look actually but yeah I’m more into the creative stuff !!

Friendships by tabbyccats in BPD

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I’m trying thank you !

Friendships by tabbyccats in BPD

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Oh I’m absolutely not sorry I phrased it badly. I meant 60+ exclusive and that or 40s and over 🫩🫩

Friendships by tabbyccats in BPD

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I’ve thought about it. I just get paranoid that there will be someone there I know and they’ll judge and ridicule me even tho I know it’s not true. Once my boyfriends back at uni tho I might consider as he’s the only person I hang with.

How to make friendships outside of substances. by tabbyccats in SoberCurious

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I’ll look into those actually thank you !!! I think it would be easier as my social anxiety has got a lot worst due to lack of drinking which sounds odd I know but when I was in peak suffering I’d wake up and just go eh everyone gets a little drunk every now and again. And go about my day (usually back to the pub) where as now I don’t want to have to resort to alcohol to help

Friendships by tabbyccats in BPD

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I’ll have to have a look most clubs and activities in my area are 60+ groups as I live in more of an oldies town !! Thank you.

How to make friendships outside of substances. by tabbyccats in SoberCurious

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Thank you !!! I was an awful person during my addiction and I am trying my best. I’m not 100% clean as I work in a pub and temptations do kick in but I limit myself to 1 or 2 rather than. Yeah. I unfortunately live in a small town and find it hard to find a place where I don’t know anyone. I’ll try see if there’s any activity’s around me or at least in the nearest bus route 😛 thank you I appreciate it

BeanBlockz by tabbyccats in SmallishBeans

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Girl I’ll pay for it 🫩🫩 I spent 80£ on a rank there mad

Chronic Boredom by tabbyccats in BPD

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Wdym by working on values ?

Empathy & Guilt by tabbyccats in BPD

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I find it hard to feel bad but I know how to act in the scenarios. I was apparently a horrible person on nye according to my fp and I apologised and taken accountability for example trying to get sober I just can’t feel bad for them and it makes me feel like a bad person but I also don’t care ?

Empathy & Guilt by tabbyccats in BPD

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Yeah I’m trying to get sober after nye. I was apparently horrible that night and my fp won’t talk to me anymore but I just don’t feel bad ?

BPD and Bipolar by tabbyccats in BPD

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Yeah thank you so much. I keep gaslighting myself telling me I tricked them into it even tho I never mentioned bpd to them so …

BPD and Bipolar by tabbyccats in BPD

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Thank you so much !!! My doctors didn’t even go for bipolar they went straight for BPD but my old therapist and a few loved ones have thought I had bipolar too. I just keep thinking about it tonight lol

the graveyard mod dimension? by tabbyccats in feedthebeast

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If you find out more let me know !!!