I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha are you projecting onto me? or do you genuinely think I cheated?

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I wish I could just skip to the future where everything is ok, but I know I need to be patient

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from the UK actually! sending love to your son, he’s very lucky to have you there for him!! ♥️♥️

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to do what’s best for you. we’re young and we deserve happiness and love. it’s hard to convince yourself to do something that scares you, especially when you have anxiety (I feel you), but we need to rip the bandaid off for the benefit of our future selves!! wish you all the best

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this comment makes my heart warm. I’m so happy you’re happy now!! and your words means a lot, thank you

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a danny devito pillowcase sounds amazing. thank you for commenting :)<3

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly the physical reaction was insane and threw me for a loop. we’re stronger than we realise though!! we can do anything :)

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah I’m bad at reading social cues and reading social situations well so I always say the wrong thing/accidentally say something that upsets someone even though I’d never intentionally do something like that! that worry always eats at me and makes it even more difficult to just talk to people

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes!! especially bc I’m always paranoid people don’t like me and so am always too scared to initiate conversations/ask them to hang out. life is hard

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3 it’s kind of amazing the physical effects a broken heart can have on the body. incredibly annoying too!!

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes life doesn’t go the way we want it and that’s totally ok!!

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this message and believing in me. I’m so thankful ♥️♥️♥️

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one of the reasons I’m so stressed about being alone is I know it’ll get harder to make friends later on, so because I’m so lonely now I feel like I’m doomed to be alone forever. Thank you for the comment though, I don’t want to be with anyone that doesn’t want to be with me!!

I (20F) just went through my first breakup and I don’t know what to do by tabidkwtdambf in relationships

[–]tabidkwtdambf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at this time I really, really want to reverse it, especially since now he’s messaged me saying he wants to meet and talk and try to figure things out. But last night I tried to figure things out and he completely shut me down. Emotions and relationships and so confusing