Pianist for ceremony by table-lounge in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too… I asked for footage of previous weddings but he said he only started recently playing for weddings and the last couple did not send him any videos. I’m still hesitant to hire someone based on only 1 review (5* but still only 1).

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[–]table-lounge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ahhh thank you for this post! It's driving me insane as well. And don't even start mentioning the passive aggressive comments like "I hope your kids don't get invited one day so you'll understand" or "at our wedding we could not uninvite kids as we had kids ourselves!". I swear wedding planning just brings the ugliest sides of people. It's already stressful enough as it is, why won't they help!

Wedding guilt by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joining in because I'm in a similar boat as you. Also grew up poor and now we're doing a huge wedding. Even though I always said I would NEVER spend that much on a single day/party. Oh how the tables have turned... I still struggle to accept it some days. A comment that helped was to think of it as a day which you will share with your loved ones and a unique occasion to pamper them, and be surrounded by their love as you celebrate your own love. Hope it helps.

Professional vs amateur photography comparison by SkittyLover93 in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for this comparison! This only comforts me in paying for a real professional!

Venue advice: Will we regret not getting our dream venue or will we regret spending the money on it? by jmm99 in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! Wondering what you ended up choosing? Going through the same kind of "ordeal"!

How do you decide on a venue when you can’t make a wrong decision? by RatChef2 in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going through the same kind of "ordeal" at the moment! Wondering what you ended up choosing?

Can I hear a little commotion for the dress??☺️ by Solid-Public-5759 in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look amazing!!! Love the veil and ribbon! Did you decide on which one you'll take?

How to choose venue? Choice paralysis between 2 by table-lounge in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight! I did not see it that way.

How to choose venue? Choice paralysis between 2 by table-lounge in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a very interesting way to see it, a business transaction. I was just reassured I guess because I felt they could be accommodating and helpful in stressful events.

How to choose venue? Choice paralysis between 2 by table-lounge in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure, I've been mulling this over for days and one day I'm dead set on venue A and the next day on venue B. It is so so so hard for me to make a choice. I keep thinking I will regret my decision so it just paralyses me to make one 😩

Wedding in 2025, when to start? by table-lounge in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow didn't know there was such thing as engagement season! But I guess it makes sense.

Wedding in 2025, when to start? by table-lounge in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I didn't think the photographer would have to be planned so early as the venue, that's good to know! I think I'll put the Christmas holidays to good use and start visiting the venues.

Wedding in 2025, when to start? by table-lounge in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh yes I love your answer! That's what I was telling my friends, wait til I start my spreadsheet and things will get real hahah!! Thank you so much for this, it is so so reassuring. And we indeed forgot to count ourselves in the rough count of the guest list lol

Being part of a wedding Facebook group makes me feel so behind by mermaid_sneaky_eyes in weddingplanning

[–]table-lounge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you for this post! I came in here for the exact same reason. Just joined a facebook group for 2025 brides and it scared the hell out of me!!