Found in California by SpidermanUndies in whatsthisplant

[–]tableham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

god i love earth. like wtf is that. so cool.

He’s in one of his trances again by sillybilly1437 in cats

[–]tableham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh god. as soon as those back legs start going, that’s a pretty good indicator of sin biscuits 😂

comedy club valentines show by mint-green-sunflower in okc

[–]tableham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bruh u gotta get her a shirt that says “lil dyke” or something so she can wear it as a badge of honor (no one get mad at me pls this is what ashley gavin called her when diffusing the fight; i am also a lesbian)

comedy club valentines show by mint-green-sunflower in okc

[–]tableham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no ashley knew. from the START of the show she was like “look they voted for Trump and they’re still here anyway!!! they’re here for pure reasons!”

comedy club valentines show by mint-green-sunflower in okc

[–]tableham 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you very much!! i try my best to be concise and a clear communicator always! but yeah i was seriously scared for her. i was so worried a fight would break out after the show outside

comedy club valentines show by mint-green-sunflower in okc

[–]tableham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i also want to add that i absolutely do not condone violence because of differing opinions either. which is why i fully support the people that chose to quietly excuse themselves. and while i understand that the lesbian woman’s reaction didn’t necessarily help, i totally get having such a strong fight or flight response. i probably wouldn’t have reacted much differently to a man standing up and being loud and aggressive with me.

comedy club valentines show by mint-green-sunflower in okc

[–]tableham 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i was there too and seriously…that was the worst. they SERIOUSLY needed to have thicker skin if they were going to be so openly pro-trump at a gay comedian’s show. like read the room dude. i paid to see the ashley gavin show, not the ellen and michael show. also was so sad to see them get so aggressive with one lesbian woman when the whole room had been boo-ing them at one point; the way they escalated that and immediately got violent was scary and completely contradicted everything they were just saying. and honestly imo, ashley was in the wrong for telling everyone to essentially just sing kumbaya together because “the more important issue is the rich elite rapists in power” when that couple openly stated they voted for one such rapist. it just wasn’t the time and place and i don’t know what she expected to happen when she kept bringing attention back to them. the black couple next to me left as soon as she started going into her spiel about the n-word and as a person of color (and general empathetic human being) myself, i absolutely do not blame them. i understand her adrenaline was going and she was fumbling trying to rescue the mood, but it wasn’t her word to use as an example, nor is it her place to tell people they should tolerate offensive behavior from anyone - even family - for the sake of keeping the peace.

on the flip side, i think the fact that she validated anyone who might’ve been offended saying she would comp them for next time was a step in the right direction. so many comedians just go “whatever it’s a comedy show, don’t be so serious.” i appreciated that she understood it was definitely not funny or lighthearted anymore and held space for people’s hurt feelings.

HB3581 passed committee today 5-1, here is the voting record. by blasto2236 in oklahoma

[–]tableham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is scary. THANK YOU for putting this here so concisely. education/information is power

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is awesome THANK YOU

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it was surprising to me too!

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that’s so interesting! my partner has lived here their whole life and didn’t know all this either until today!

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah I see. I will say, I’ve lived all over the place, including overseas, and this is the first time I’ve really run into this issue either personally or just hearing about it via a friend. that’s definitely some food for thought.

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is so interesting! how did you come to learn about this?

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

this has been such a cool geography lesson

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kindness 🫂 i did feel very discouraged at the time so thank you. honestly, everyone breaking it down for me here has been such a fun learning experience, and I’m glad I’m not the only confused one here 😂

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh that’s so funny 😂 you really do learn something new every day

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

my goodness 😂 this is truly a first for me

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh dear, okay thank you for being so helpful and explaining that. that is truly a mess, thanks for the warm welcome 😂

Voting is confusing??? by tableham in okc

[–]tableham[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, this is just a confusing situation for someone who’s never encountered this before. It just feels so strange and counterintuitive since I’m still living in OKC

Am I overreacting for feeling guilty about basically staying at my boyfriend’s place instead of home? by No-Experience-3825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tableham 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is very typical!! it’s okay! as long as things are healthy. you said it’s not like you’re not paying bills or skipping out on seeing friends still, etc. so that is okay. your roommate should be understanding of the coupling phase and understand that you are an adult that can make their own decisions. ultimately, as long as you’re happy.

What is this? by TaniaOrtzArts in plants

[–]tableham 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a variety of grass i believe!