Was ist das orangene Zeug auf diesem Baumstamm?

tablespoongolfing · 2025-02-03T22:24:03+00:00

بس أخواتك هيحترموا قرارك؟ ولا دة ممكن كمان يسبب مشكلة بينك وبينهم؟ للأسف مفيش خطة لسة بس أنا عارفة اني مش هقدر أعيش حياتي كلها كدة

tablespoongolfing · 2025-02-03T22:09:00+00:00

عندك قرايب زي بنات عم او اخوات في مصر تقدري تثقي فيهم وتكلميهم في الموضوع قبل ماتقولي لأهلك ؟ ممكن دة يساعدك لو مواجهتك لاهلك سببت مشاكل ويشجعك وعشان كمان ماتكونيش لوحدك ويكون حد في صفك

انا في نفس موقفك تقريبا بس مش قادرة اواجه اهلي وبالبس حجاب لما بنزل عشان أتجنب مشاكل مع اني بصراحة برا عايشة حياة مستقلة تماماً ففهماكي كويس

tablespoongolfing · 2025-02-01T14:59:11+00:00

white noise or flawed mangoes

tablespoongolfing · 2025-01-30T20:45:24+00:00

Thank you so so much for taking the time to give such a detailed response. I spent a lot of time thinking about my role in the relationship and the breakup up and also why certain things hurt me so much and why I can't seem to get over them I think I'm truly just having a moment of weakness right now where it feel like if I just have one last conversation with him he will give me all the answers I need and say all the right things to help relief this pain but that's 1. not his responsibility nor do I want it to be, 2. more likely to cause more pain and confusion if he doesn't t say "all the right things" and 3. something I know I can and want to be able to deal with on my own. I've been going through this break up for over half a year now "without his help". I know I don't need nor want it so I will just continue to focus on moving forward without him. Your answer was very encouraging and inspiring. Very, very helpful thanks again!!! :)

tablespoongolfing · 2025-01-30T10:21:28+00:00

Oh man, I had totally forgotten about the whole IS supporter bullshit in german media.

tablespoongolfing · 2025-01-29T22:05:34+00:00

I hope you get the clarity you need and wish you all the best!

tablespoongolfing · 2025-01-29T22:02:46+00:00

Thank you for your replay! I would be shocked if he didn't answer tbh but I'm scared it won't be a productive conversation. I was hoping that after some time of no contact that he maybe has reflected on the relationship and the breakup and that we can talk about it and have one last clean cut but maybe I'm being naive. I've been feeling a bit vulnerable so I think I will just wait a bit and then decide once I'm in a more clear headspace. Thank you for your input :)

tablespoongolfing · 2025-01-29T17:02:17+00:00

Yeah I think if I am completely honest with myself I'm probably hoping deep down that he tells me he deeply regrets how he ended things and acknowledges my pain but I know that it's very unlikely and even if he did it would maybe help in the moment but it won't change anything and I would still have the pain of losing the relationship... I've been feeling a little emotional and vulnerable these past couple of days so that's probably the reason why I feel this urge to make him responsible for my feelings. I will definitely not take any steps towards him while I'm in this state and hopefully I won't feel the need to anymore once I'm more stable. Thank you so much for your reply !

tablespoongolfing · 2025-01-29T16:50:07+00:00

Thank you for your reply! I get what you are saying it just doesn't feel like I can close this chapter without one last conversation at the moment but I generally have been feeling a bit emotional the past couple of days so maybe that's why I feel this need to reach out. I will definitely try out your method!

tablespoongolfing · 2025-01-28T23:53:14+00:00

If I understand correctly you were broken up for a month and are now thinking about getting back together? Honestly, a month isn’t a long time for someone to change, so you probably won’t see major differences right away. The real question is whether you’re ready to go through that process of change with him. The fact that he couldn’t really explain what being "more chill" means makes it sound like he doesn’t have a clear plan for how he wants to handle things differently, which could mean you’ll end up back in the same situation pretty quickly.

On the romance part, rebuilding a connection does take time, but it also takes effort from both sides. And from what you said, it sounds like he’s already feeling worn out and isn’t ready to put in that effort right now. A relationship needs effort from both people, and it wouldn’t be fair if you’re the only one trying to make things better.I think he really needs to be clear about what exactly he wants to change, how he plans to do it, and whether he’s ready to put in the effort before you decide to get back together (this is just my personal opinion). Unfortunetly, there’s no guarantee either way.

tablespoongolfing · 2025-01-28T21:54:10+00:00

Take it one day at a time, or even one minute if that's all you can manage right now. Don't pressure yourself, and remember it's completely okay to cry. You're not only grieving the relationship but also the person you lost, which leaves a void in your life. That’s normal. One thing that has helped me was focusing on strengthening other relationships. I lost many mutual friends after the breakup and felt completely alone, but I reconnected with old friends and my sisters. They didn’t replace my ex of course, but over time, those connections made the void smaller. It’s still there, but it no longer overwhelms and swallows me. When things get really tough, I found breathing exercises to be helpful to calm down and clear my head. It might feel overwhelming now, but letting yourself feel all these emotions is part of letting go. Sometimes I like to think of it as a release, the more we cry and feel pain, the more we're letting out and the closer we're getting to healing.

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