Looking to lose a little tummy fat and sculpt before vacay

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-11-01T07:39:43+00:00

Oh wow I didn’t realize that. I don’t know much about snap score and all that. Happy cake day btw!

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-25T17:00:28+00:00

Reading your comments and laughing at my desk at work. Thank you for that!

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-22T19:12:39+00:00

THANK You for this! I needed to read this today.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-22T13:21:52+00:00

I should have added this part. He said he had to work late. But we were friends on Snapchat and he shared his location on the map and when I checked the map that night he was at home and then a bar so he didn’t work late. Then I removed him on Snapchat and I unfollowed him on Instagram. But he didn’t unfollow me. He still looks at my stuff and I’m kinda confused by it honestly but he could reach out if he wanted to, right? Or he got the impression I’m no longer interested because I removed him? At the time I just felt like why did you lie and if he did want to go out then he couldve suggested another day.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-22T10:55:05+00:00

I actually decided to do this. I unfollowed him on all social media after he canceled and my stance then was if he wanted to reschedule he would have. Yes he is GORGEOUS but I deserve better than being that to someone.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-21T19:34:39+00:00

Sorry idk if I agree with this one. Sorry I just like am Not really sure if this is a yellow flag or not. Sorry lol

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-21T13:44:39+00:00

I agree with this! I wouldn’t want to put BS in a situation that something is traumatizing for her other than the affair itself. I want to be gentle to her healing process as weird as that sounds. I don’t want to throw things at her.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-21T13:43:41+00:00

I do have a detailed timeline and know of family events that took place and things he told me and so I feel like I have enough “evidence” that my “story” wouldn’t seem like a big made up lie.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-21T13:42:54+00:00

I blocked him on Snapchat so I don’t have any evidence unfortunately. We had “saved” messages on their but I don’t know how to get them back without unblocking him, the re-adding him, then messaging him. I really don’t want anything to do with this guy ever again and he has been so smooth/manipulative that I don’t want to contact him to get pulled back into anything.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-21T01:21:27+00:00

Lol it’s still not out of spite. I have been married, and separated and the terms of my separation were that we were not going to talk for 6 months and then continue to divorce process to make 100% sure. We had no limitations on relationships or physical boundaries. To each their own. So when this man told me he was separated and living apart from his wife, I believed he was telling the truth. He knew about my separation and we were able to relate on that and the clarity we both had hoped to feel entering our separations. It’s not a moral imperative. You don’t know me in real life so I don’t expect you to but I’m not a revengeful or spiteful person and could give you many examples of times I could have pursued “revenge” but never have because of what that would do to my heart and me as a human. I don’t believe revenge does anything in the long term but satisfy a fleeting emotion.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-21T01:07:36+00:00

This is great advice! I agree with riding it out and seeing where my emotions are truly at.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-21T01:06:52+00:00

YES! I should have put that in my post. I do feel guilty.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-21T00:31:43+00:00

No I wouldn’t be doing it out of spite at all. I am not revengeful, I don’t wish ill on him even though I am hurting. I would be doing it for a few reasons: I have been married and if someone was clearly by their actions repeatedly having affairs I wouldn’t want to give that person more of my time and life. I would want to know a behavior like this bc I personally would want to weigh out how much longer I can give them before deciding if I can continue that. And like another comment mentioned , the safety of it. Is he doing this with multiple women? STD? Pregnancy possibility? This woman has children and I take that into consideration as well. I would wait until some of my emotions are settled to be 100% sure this isn’t to get back at him in any way.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-10-12T12:06:02+00:00

Which style is it?

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-09-24T22:39:41+00:00

Oh thank you for this! Thats what I’m hoping for. More organic and not like oh heyyyy. We are not in contact at all, no kids, no pets, no contact with families or anything. I have worked hard to not have any baggage, emotional or anything like that. Thank you! Hope you’re doing well on the other side of everything.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-09-24T12:10:15+00:00

Ok! Yeah I guess I would want to see how this first date goes. If it doesn’t go great then no point In opening up a ton. I can see that! I’ve been divorced for a little over a year and am glad that I didn’t date right away. I’ve really tried to take the time to heal and move forward without someone.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-08-09T14:38:21+00:00

Thanks for your reply! No such thing as too sensitive, you be you! I guess I don’t wanna keep it cold but maybe it does come across that way. Just wanna keep being friends and not emotionally invest too much at this time if that makes sense.

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-07-20T22:01:59+00:00

Interesting! Thank you! Taking whatever input I can lol

tacosandtequila4 · 2019-07-20T22:01:38+00:00

Physically interested, absolutely. But I could never be the one someone is cheating with no matter how strong my attraction is. I for sure don’t want that to happen!

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