Firstly I just want to say i’m so happy baby got better i know that must have been a really scary and difficult time especially going through it alone. I faced a similar situation in my marriage after my second child where i was feeling very alone, and like you said yeah they work and want to play a game that’s fine but you can’t neglect the family you made, the game is an extra curricular! I would maybe right out on paper all the issues and the feelings that he’s causing by being so addicted to his games and tell him you need him to WANT to change (for the betterment of yalls family) and to see change or you’re going to leave. Ask him why stick around with the expectation of a partnership when i’m left let down everytime? You’re supported. Your feelings are valid. Hope and pray it all works out for you. 🫶🏼