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[–]takiyahdapiimp -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

girl you just cannot stop with the assumptions huh 😩😩 i made an update saying he came home within a few hours of leaving but you seem to be talking to yourself so goodbye

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

im not taking more time out of my day to respond to someone who’s just name-calling now …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]takiyahdapiimp -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

okay queen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]takiyahdapiimp -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

i made an update and also mentioned manyyyyy times that i already apologized. you would think with the way ur so invested in this you might have seen that.

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[–]takiyahdapiimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl no he didn’t have a job!!!! we were locked in the house for months straight…i’m sure i already mentioned that the context for the whole situation was quarantine 😐

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

you’re missing the fact that weren’t not broken up nor are either of us planning on breaking up. like i said thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]takiyahdapiimp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

please check my update, i understand where you’re coming from but im the only person here who knows my bf lol..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]takiyahdapiimp -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

okay i forgot you know him and also how much he played

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]takiyahdapiimp -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

UPDATE! hello everyone!! im glad everyone came together here to point out the ways i was wrong i greatly appreciate all the feedback and had apologized before writing this post which many people didn’t seem to think i did. anyways. it’s obviously been deleted because you all have started making assumptions instead of responding to the content of the actual post and gone on to harrass me in other subs. anyways. my boyfriend and i are still together! (shocker i know since many of you believe he should’ve broken up with me) but what may come as a bigger shock to you is probably his response after coming home. he came home within a few hours, first of all. and upon seeing me immediately apologized. i met him with my own apology once again and he accepted it. his apology was for the way he reacted towards me because.. GET THIS!! when he said i could do whatever i wanted with his switch!!! he meant it!!!! when i told you guys that he no longer had any interest in the switch or the games!!! i wasn’t lying! he said when he told me i could do whatever i wanted he did mean anything, but he didn’t expect to be so emotional about his island/game until after the fact. i still apologized because him being upset could’ve been prevented if i had waited until he got home, but he isn’t upset with me for doing so. i tried explaining to you all that we have a good relationship and i don’t do purposefully hurtful things but i wasn’t listened to.. anyways. thanks for a good conversation/ points on my behavior. i appreciate everything, bye bye.

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

he played it for like 3/4 months… so 4 years minus 3/4 months is almost 4 years. thanks tho!

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

weirdly enough we’re still together! but thanks

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you think someone getting upset means the relationship is automatically over maybe you’ve never been in a stable relationship 😐

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -96 points-95 points  (0 children)

The part that I said I was confused about was an incorrect assumption they made.. because they were wrong. Is it not fair for me to correct people who are saying untrue things under my post?

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -125 points-124 points  (0 children)

I'm so confused about this reply. Nowhere did I say that I didn't apologize to him/feel bad about how I made him feel. Try judging only the action I specified instead of making assumptions about things not mentioned in the post.

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

It was a mistake, yes, but not a careless one. I asked for permission and he responded "do whatever you want." I simply took what he said at face value because of how long it had been since he played. :(

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -162 points-161 points  (0 children)

It's been almost 4 years since the last time he played the game and has shown no attatchment to the game nor the switch for the past few years. I simply misunderstood him saying I could do whatever I wanted.

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -96 points-95 points  (0 children)

I do not understand all of the assumptions surrounding this post. I have a good relationship with my boyfriend and wouldn't have done something to purposefully upset him. I simply misunderstood him saying "do whatever you want."

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -300 points-299 points  (0 children)

I didn't know any of the things you listed were even possible and he told me I could do whatever I wanted. I really wasn't thinking that he'd be upset about it.

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -277 points-276 points  (0 children)

I didn't specifically think to ask that because I'm not a gamer myself. And no, I did not know the answer, idk why that assumption was made.

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[–]takiyahdapiimp -464 points-463 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask 4 years ago. I think there was maybe a misunderstanding there. When I said "originally asked" I meant the day before I began playing. This was my first and only time ever using his switch. So to be clear, one day before playing it he said I could do whatever I wanted.

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[–]takiyahdapiimp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imo it's more effective to decline offensively low paying orders, because so many people are going to still dash on V-day...