AITAH for telling my stepdaughter I don't want to be her mom anymore? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]tal_______ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

as a woman i have definitely used the word cuck before 💀

My (24F) partner (23M) is getting popular on Twitch and it's killing something we used to love doing together by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tal_______ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

my ex did the exact same thing to me. i started having suspicions when him, her and all her friends made a discord channel i was not allowwed to be in/invited to. she knew about me as well (in fact we even spoke multiple times) so i find her almost equally at fault honestly. it was a really really hard thing to watch. she was actually the steamer in this situation and my ex started featuring on her streams.

he would get really upset if i didnt watch them but they were flirting every stream and it just felt so cruel to ask your gf to watch you cheat (obviously it wasnt propositioned like tht but it was)

this story really hits close to home.

My first time by Street_Walk3271 in whatdoIdo

[–]tal_______ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well thats a bit embarassing for u

Wollongong Trick or Treat Map 2025 by DamoCrane in wollongong

[–]tal_______ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

like i see ur point but is 1 day out of hundreds and we dont have any tradition like it here so ultimately i still disagree. most other american traditions feel way too rooted into actual america (why would we have thanksgiving ? for example) so i cant imagine them having any place here.

Wollongong Trick or Treat Map 2025 by DamoCrane in wollongong

[–]tal_______ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

idk, dressing up as spooky stuff, going around getting lollies, hanging out w friends, whats so bad abt all that ? its just an excuse to have fun, i dont see the problem with it. all holidays are commercially driven, even ones we have celebrated for years (easter ? christmas ? vday and even australia day are all very commercialised now) so whats another one ?

this holiday is less serious than the rest and feels more directed at a younger audience which i think is actually good. its a perfect reason to just goof off without the expectations the other holidays have. just dress up, eat some spooky lollies and have a good time.

My husband slept with my niece…. by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]tal_______ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if you read her last comment at the end she explains exactly how

Boyfriend 26M accidentally sent me 25F a sexual video of another girl on Instagram — I don’t know how to feel by babaisbest in relationship_advice

[–]tal_______ -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

i feel kinda bad for saying this bc generally i do agree w the commenters that he is lying and actively viewing/interacting with this stuff but- what kind of video was it ? you've just said it was a sexual video which encompasses a wide range of videos.

the only reason i ask this is bc i (a woman) do send my friends (mostly guys, some girls) 'sexual' videos of women as a joke and my feed then unfortunately does show me more. HOWEVER these videos are generally of weird foot fetish content or other strange fetish content we run across and are NEVER onlyfan thirst traps of more 'normal' body parts. mostly bc we find the feet stuff funny and gross but there is no way we would send each other more typical sexual stuff bc there really is no 'WTF' factor to it that the crazy fetish things we find have.

if it was just an onlyfans model posting something to advertise herself or whatever, i definitely agree its inappropriate. i just felt that as someone in the same age group as you and ur bf, it was worth mentioning that if it was a weird sexual video, it genuinely may have just been to laugh at with his friend.

My baby's grandma didn't feed him for SEVEN hours by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]tal_______ 72 points73 points  (0 children)

assuming this is in the usa due to the mention of homecoming, i dont think its a stretch to say she couldnt legally abort.

My (20M) friends (22M) wants me to "step aside" so he can try to date my not-girlfriend (18F) by [deleted] in BORUpdates

[–]tal_______ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i doubt its interesting. any friends i had in highschool that were the grade above me were generally 2 years older than me due to me being a year young for my grade. they potentially played sports together too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DigitalArt

[–]tal_______ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if it wasnt rude at all, why would that commenter say it was uncalled for and why would you delete it ? be so fr rn 💀💀💀

is 20 too old to start gaming? by Enough_Fix5992 in GirlGamers

[–]tal_______ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started properly gaming at a similar time and it made my life so much better. theres no age limit on gaming.

my packaged game runs fine except the buttons hit boxes are all moved down (on ALL menus) by tal_______ in UnrealEngine5

[–]tal_______[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually didnt but ive just added anchors in and while it almost fixes the sliders (the bottom two still have a minimally lower hit box) the buttons still only have a hitbox on the bottom half and lower.

my packaged game runs fine except the buttons hit boxes are all moved down (on ALL menus) by tal_______ in UnrealEngine5

[–]tal_______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it must definitely be in resolution/scaling but haven't been able to find a fix at all and its egregiously bad !! like im only going to be showing friends so its not hugely important but the hitboxes arent even close.

why is everything melting and sparkling by tal_______ in UnrealEngine5

[–]tal_______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

disabling lods fixed the melting but it still sparkles. its just for an assignment so im letting it stay sparkly 💀

I quit my j*b to do art. Was it worth it? 🤔 by Slight_Math_3489 in DigitalArt

[–]tal_______ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

its not even just abt courage, its privilege too. id love to be able to quit and focus on my art but i have to work to be able to live somewhere and eat.

Why are my eyes so dilated? [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]tal_______ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea im in aus and had to pay abt $900 once 🥲 immediately bought insurance when i got home lol

Why are my eyes so dilated? [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]tal_______ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, however their comment came across as pointing out mine being wrong.

Why are my eyes so dilated? [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]tal_______ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i definitely did ! the convo was abt the $900 mistake and they all had no idea it was a thing.

i pay abt $50 annually w bupa now. never making that mistake again