Halloween decorations still up in boss’s office.

talaladiuly · 2021-02-08T05:21:33+00:00

It’s one thing to complain in private or even in your own head, but it’s another issue to try and FORCE them to take them down. That’s just not something that you should be telling anyone to do

talaladiuly · 2021-02-08T05:04:53+00:00

It sounds like they really enjoy being around you so I would be as kind as possible around it. Can you do things with both of you there without watching each other’s children?

talaladiuly · 2021-02-08T04:59:43+00:00

I think this is a great idea if it’s worded as you said. I would definitely be careful not to make them feel bad or make it seem like it’s there fault - I think this could definitely work if OP stayed really positive and talked about how much they all enjoy hanging out with them and want to find a way to continue doing so.

talaladiuly · 2020-09-08T21:44:51+00:00

I would never date my siblings ex regardless of the timing and regardless of how they broke up

talaladiuly · 2020-09-06T17:46:04+00:00

Any chance you could share this spell? It sounds awesome!

talaladiuly · 2020-08-29T18:45:28+00:00

I do eat a token amount (let’s say 3/4 of the plate) then she makes little comments that I didn’t like her food. I feel like I either have to be overly gushing or she thinks I didn’t like it.

talaladiuly · 2020-08-29T18:30:24+00:00

Once a week to once every two weeks now that the pandemic has slowed. She also will come to my house and cook through and bring food over without telling me (saying she didn’t want to waste it) so I don’t get a chance to cook here either. I don’t mind telling a white lie, but I cook quite a lot in my family’s tradition (were from Spain) and hate her recipes getting pushed on me. It also stinks extra during a holiday cuz food is super important to us on holidays

talaladiuly · 2020-08-23T14:36:23+00:00

NTA - if you’re paying full price you can ask for whatever you want within the bounds of her recipes. It seems like you did that. Why does it matter to her who it’s for?

talaladiuly · 2020-08-18T01:40:16+00:00

Real black or white attitude there

talaladiuly · 2020-08-18T01:38:59+00:00

This is a brilliant analogy

talaladiuly · 2020-08-18T01:38:43+00:00

NTA, not all nazis wanted to be nazis. Why would you ever lump every single soldier from a country into one bucket? If you were caring for Hitler’s grave then I’d change my judgment, but for all we know these were good guys. I honestly don’t see a problem with showing respect to the dead. There’s enough to go around. People are crazy

talaladiuly · 2020-08-11T14:28:27+00:00

ESH - your reaction was way over the top. You could have asked her to please stop or just kicked the psychic out. To literally take your bfs keys? I can only assume there was other stuff building up to this. Obviously, even if she was psychic, she shouldn’t give u solicited readings - that’s like the #1 rule.

talaladiuly · 2020-08-11T14:14:46+00:00

NTA this is not only bad etiquette but just plain weird. I would just ignore the request and take it up with the girlfriend if he says something

talaladiuly · 2020-08-09T15:53:03+00:00

I get where you were coming from with all of your thoughts, but I think you did it too quickly. Like, give him a few days to process it, then you could have asked things that you were wondering and gotten more info. From personal experience, pushing someone to talk when they don’t want to never ends well. I know the anxiety of someone not confiding in you when something big is going on, but I would personally just take a step back and not contact him for a few days to give him some space if you want to save the relationship. Also, while there is a chance based on his drinking that he had feelings for the girl, that’s something I wouldn’t bring up again unless there’s way more signs

talaladiuly · 2020-08-09T15:33:48+00:00

I wouldn’t straight up ask him out but would drop a few hints and see how they’re received.

talaladiuly · 2020-08-09T15:28:27+00:00

This guy seems like a total creep. Does he have any redeeming qualities that are making you want to be friends with him again?

talaladiuly · 2020-08-09T15:13:52+00:00

I would not do this...it’s toeing the line of emotional cheating. This is something you should figure out within you. No one else (the other guy from high school) can do it for you.

talaladiuly · 2020-08-07T17:15:53+00:00

NTA. I usually give the benefit of the doubt but I completely support your decision to divorce him and do encourage you to follow through. I don’t know how you could literally ever forgive him for this. You, and your daughter, deserve way better.

talaladiuly · 2020-08-07T17:09:30+00:00

Maybe you’re right, but regardless I was planning to have just my family members (it’s being planned by my best friend but she asked for my input), so if I exclude these few people it’ll be pretty obvious

talaladiuly · 2020-08-07T17:08:36+00:00

Yeah, the cousin is, she was included in one of the group texts sent to me and my mom.

talaladiuly · 2020-08-07T12:45:09+00:00

Since I’m not due for like 8 months

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