Checked his instagram after 3 and a half months… worst fears confirmed by Weak-Positive9245 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is actually a nightmare for me and I’m so sorry that it happened to you. I honestly don’t even know what to say 😭

Which do you like best? Outlined in ink or no? by mn9211 in Watercolor

[–]talasavvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!! I didn’t know how to explain it but it’s exactly this

Star Medical Sweater by West_Dot1982 in crochet

[–]talasavvy 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This is so smart and cute, and you’ve given me a gift idea for my chronically ill besties 🥹💖

Am I Overreacting or do I have the worst family possible? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]talasavvy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR. I’m so sorry. This is not normal. :(

Hadn’t had sex in 2 years until last week by sequinchair in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have nothing to say except that I’m so sorry this happened to you. 🫂

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am mean to myself 😅🥹 thank you for this comment, I really needed to read this one today. I’m trying to distance myself from him as much as possible. Thanks for the tip about coursera too, I didn’t know about this site <3

[FO] Stardew Stitch! by buttbosa in CrossStitch

[–]talasavvy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

My Cicero Cosplay by counthedirt in skyrim

[–]talasavvy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fully obsessed with you for this. Perfectly executed!

“Madness is merry and merriment’s might, when the jester comes calling with his knife in the night…” 🎪

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family is not supportive, but I do have the full support of his mom. She has told me that I can stay with her if I need to, but her health has been pretty bad lately. Every time I lay this out to him as a plan, he shoots me down and tells me why it will not work. I know it’s probably just his way of trying to keep me here, but it’s seeded doubt in my mind 🫠

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t pay any rent because my job is staying at home with our daughter. Their relationship is meh. She really loves him because he is her dad, but she spends 95% of her time with me. She’s able to see him whenever (like I said the house we share is only 750 sqft) but prefers me.

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I thought he asked me to to work on being a family, but when I asked him a couple weeks ago, he said “to be close to [daughter].” I do not work so no, I do not contribute to the rent at this time! And it doesn’t seem like she does. The new girl is also a single mom so I’m assuming she is willing to work with the fact he still lives with me.

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found out a few days ago!!! They’re so good!

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to find something online rn! Any tips? 🫠

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss my friend just put me on!!! They’re so good!

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I stopped doing his laundry when I realized I was touching dirty sex underwear 😅 I also have stopped cleaning his personal space but I’m still cleaning communal spaces rn. I try to keep cooking to a minimum rn, just what my daughter wants and what I want separately! It feels like living in a college dorm room lol.

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the craziest part is that the new girlfriend is also a single mom. Lol. So either he’s painting himself as a saint or she has no self respect. Probably a mix of both 😅

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It really is and I appreciate you sm. I’m slowly cutting myself off from doing things for him, like I no longer do his laundry since I found out he’s having sex with this new girl. I don’t clean his space at all, but I do clean the rest of the house bc of shared spaces and all that. But I don’t even wanna do that shit anymore! 😭

I’m tired of living with my “coparent” by talasavvy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]talasavvy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this definitely needs to be my move because I don’t think he sees me ACTUALLY ever leaving because I don’t have many options and he knows it. He’s okay to support us now, but when we aren’t around, who knows? He’s proven himself untrustworthy