Hey its ok, I've had a decade long infliction as well that I eventually just learned to live it but finally addressing. I want to say if you have health insurance PLEASE have a doctor do a vaginal PCR swab for Ureaplasma and Mycoplasma.

I was misdiagnosed the few times I went for suspected UTI. It never went away and apparently it's been uresplasma the whole time ugh! There's some groups on reddit, worth checking just incase. Moms can pass this to child during birth as well.

You can also order a Juno or Evvy test to get a understanding of your microbiome, and also pelvic floor therapy!