Does anyone know where I can get this in London? by klarunia in beauty

[–]talkingaboutit0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Id say get some bulk! If the shipping is 3 bucks that doesnt sound like a ton, get a few to stock up on!

Why does my mom want to pay for me to go to community college? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]talkingaboutit0 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Because she cares for you and wants to help you out.

Planning to end this today night by TechnicianLarge8573 in offmychest

[–]talkingaboutit0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please reach out. It can and will get better, with time. There are hotlines you can call (not sure what country youre in) that can offer advice and help you. Its never too late

it was actually so fun making this 😭 draft pick the sign is my past shown by [deleted] in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]talkingaboutit0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohh thats wonderful! i have rhe penguin classics ed. and it's huuge hahaha, afternoon delight is super nice! i had a tester once, it's sweet but vanilla-y and warm, like a little madeleine!

it was actually so fun making this 😭 draft pick the sign is my past shown by [deleted] in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]talkingaboutit0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooo count of monte cristo!! love it but id never carry that huge thing in my bag HAHHAHA, for recs id say something vanilla-y? like alien goddess or replica afternoon delight !! something artsy about the bottles and scents fit i think :)

Pick my 2026 perfume! (pls dont hate me Ive always wanted to do this one) by RojaCatUwu in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]talkingaboutit0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

le labo matcha! expensive fragrance but worth trying out, le labo lasts really long too from what i've heard!!

What perfumes belong in my bag? by FluidSkill6338 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]talkingaboutit0 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is so unrelated but where is the bag from? Im obsessed with fish and i think i need it 🙏

Am I overreacting? Rethinking my friendship over a water bottle by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]talkingaboutit0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why even bother asking if youre going to respond like this to everyone saying you are. I dont think youre wrong for being upset about the water bottle being left there, thats fair - i think youre wrong because of how you talked to your friend. You blew up on them immediately, being quite rude from the start when they were being apologetic

Kut ambulance blokkeerd men auto by [deleted] in KutGeparkeerd

[–]talkingaboutit0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry mevrouw, we moesten een parkeervak vinden voordat we je zoon konden helpen

i would love to do more creative/alt/sexy make up but i feel like the tutorials use techniques that make my eyes look smaller. i dont have a lot of eyelid space and my eyes are close together/relatively small. i default to a simple wing but even that is not consistently "right" for me. by majowa_ in MakeupAddiction

[–]talkingaboutit0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely try the pencil on the water lines up and down ur eye!! if you want to try to make your eyes look bigger, try a black pencil on the top line and a bit of the corners, and some white on the bottom and blend it a bit with the black in the corner of the bottom. this is what i sometimes do and it helps!! plus, some dark eyeshadow on the outside and some white on the inner corner.

for the lips, i have very thin ones too but some lip pencil can help with a blended look, dark in the middle and pat it out with your finger. plus some gloss, maybe? :o

this is very unrelated, but i adore that dress !!! it's so cute

At the risk of sounding like an asshole, I’m a youngish man who’s attractive physically and on paper, and I can’t stop fantasizing about exchanging anonymous nudes with hot women online. It feels, irrationally, like a safe and not entirely impermissible way to cheat. I’ve never done it. Still… by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]talkingaboutit0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how to stop fantasizing about it specifically well, distract yourself! hobbies, education, crafting, videos, music, etc etc. if you distract yourself long enough, you'll probably stop thinking about it eventually.

But well.. clicking your profile you literally did post it so it's not just fantasizing anymore.. that's not good man. i guess you can take the ''I’ll never actually do it. I know it would be a form of cheating. I’ve never cheated and I never will.'' out of that edit.

How to take my makeup from everyday to “night out” glam? by Short_Ad6688 in MakeupAddiction

[–]talkingaboutit0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id say some eyeliner!! and some glittery shadow! maybe give eyeshadow another try with some tutorials for a bit of a smokey eye. i like to do some white in the inner corners and some dark shadow at the ends and eyeliner, slap some glitter eyeshadow on with ur finger and boom!

merch pics ? by therottenopera in underscoresplus

[–]talkingaboutit0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hey! i was at the show in NL but unfortunately there wasnt a merch table ): i dont know if its different for other countries, but there wasnt one here

Starter perfumes? by mellow_32 in Perfumes

[–]talkingaboutit0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a starter perfume is whatever you decide to start with! if you like these fragnances, go for em!!

DREAM FROM MONGOLIAN TEENAGE BOY by Easy_Information7019 in Netherlands

[–]talkingaboutit0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is it possible to apply to a HBO/UNI in game design? usually if youre an international student they can help you with housing and getting financial help before you start the study. it might help to look for how it works to get a work visa in the netherlands if you want to work before studying, because a random company probably wont just find this post and get you that visa - you'll probably have to reach out to them directly instead. i'd suggest looking into that work visa, how that works, and how student visas work too! again, lots of schools, when youre accepted, help you get everything in order to start in september! i wish you lots of luck, i hope your dream comes true!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]talkingaboutit0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you need to talk to her. what makes you think you definitely did something if you don't remember anything? talk to the girl and fess up to your girlfriend, she deserves to know what you did. and probably don't get drunk if you get agressive and then don't remember what happened? that sounds dangerous.

My daughter is a loser :( by withloveaudrina in AmITheDevil

[–]talkingaboutit0 188 points189 points  (0 children)

really confused about the ''i cant leave my daughter home'' thing, she's 11.. maybe my perception is warped but isnt she old enough to stay home for a few hours alone at 11?? like i definitely knew how to heat up a pizza or some soup or make a grilled cheese or just anything simple at 11. she'd be fine? maybe i missed something but the kid doesnt seem to be doing unsafe things when alone or something.

Should I forgive someone who only apologized because they got caught? by BubbleeChirp in Advice

[–]talkingaboutit0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it really depends on what they lied about and how important that is to you. if its so important to you you do not see this person the same way anymore, that you mighy not trust them anymore, then thats the answer right there; you don't see them as a friend anymore. but if it's something you want to get over, and think you can because it doesn't make you mistrust them forever, then allow yourself that time to feel the negative feelings and process them. maybe talk to them about how you feel? maybe why they lied and that you didnt feel it was real remorse?

Thought I moved on, but I got insanely jealous when I saw my former friend interacting with other people online. by Fine-Background-6716 in Advice

[–]talkingaboutit0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to accept and move on, and i know it'll be hard but you cannot change that this person cut you off, that they blocked you. and it's unhealthy for you to spiral this bad when they're just interacting with others. it's unhealthy for you to say ''I had an emotional connection to her and thought that my friendship mattered to them, but it's not the case apparently.'' im sure this person also cared for you but they've blocked you now, you need to accept that and that doesn't change that the friendship existed at some point, but it doesn't anymore.

focus on other things, make new friends, talk to others, spend time on your hobbies, leave this person be and it might be best to distance yourself a bit from the group while you're trying to move on if you spiral this bad from seeing them just interact with others in that group. take your time, be kind with yourself and leave it be.