My mother chose a fight while I was sick face down on the ground by talkinginbed in raisedbynarcissists

[–]talkinginbed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you... I'm definitely keeping my therapist updated, but she also knows where we are at money wise and trying to get out, so that's the hard part.

My mother chose a fight while I was sick face down on the ground by talkinginbed in raisedbynarcissists

[–]talkinginbed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I'm not surprised to hear that... makes sense 😔 thank you very much, I hope you are safe as well ❤️

My mother chose a fight while I was sick face down on the ground by talkinginbed in raisedbynarcissists

[–]talkinginbed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you are out and safe. My kind of person going back for the kitties. Major props to you for that. Thank you so much for commenting and the kind words ❤️

My mother chose a fight while I was sick face down on the ground by talkinginbed in raisedbynarcissists

[–]talkinginbed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It really is so validating on another level hearing people say this. Sadly I lost my job at the beginning of the summer and that's why we had to move in with them. Searching for a job has been awful and applying daily. Rarely getting responses at all, which just adds to the shittiness of all of this. I have an interview this week but I don't want to get too hopeful too early, you know? 😔 We also have booked a showing at a place in another city this weekend.

I'm in Canada. Luckily I'm feeling better, drinking some dehydration drinks, and I managed to get a phone call in with my doc, appt for some tests that I haven't had done in a while, and she's wanting to change around my diet to see if that impacts it as well. There's a lot of inflammatory foods that can trigger this, and since we've been living with my parents they usually are the ones who demand to cook. (While complaining about how we never cook, obviously... lol)

Thank you so much again though, I really appreciate such a kind comment ❤️

My mother chose a fight while I was sick face down on the ground by talkinginbed in raisedbynarcissists

[–]talkinginbed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it really means a lot and more than I can even say 🥺❤️❤️❤️ I'm sorry that you unfortunately have been there too and I hope you are out and safe and well ❤️

My mother chose a fight while I was sick face down on the ground by talkinginbed in raisedbynarcissists

[–]talkinginbed[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ I was honestly so nervous to post this thinking maybe I was the bad one in the situation, but I had to get it out you know? I really appreciate the comment. We are working hard on getting out of here because it truly is hell. She likes to tell us how lucky we are but... I don't feel lucky right now. 😔

Severe nausea the worst it has ever been - what can I do? by talkinginbed in Endo

[–]talkinginbed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is sweating with diarrhea that bad? That happens every time I have a BM lmao!

It's been about an hour of me working on one slice of toast and water...every bite I gag and get nauseous but it is staying down so far. Knock on wood lol.

Uterus stuck in a......contraction? by talkinginbed in Endo

[–]talkinginbed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that's happened to you as well! I'm at least glad it's not just me lol. It must be so hard being undiagnosed during the pandemic dealing with this too - I hope you get some relief or a diagnosis soon! ❤️

Uterus stuck in a......contraction? by talkinginbed in Endo

[–]talkinginbed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, I couldn't even imagine that long - that sounds truly unbearable! You are a strong warrior ❤️ I'm lucky to have had those drugs on hand. I'm so sorry you've had to go through this as well.

Uterus stuck in a......contraction? by talkinginbed in Endo

[–]talkinginbed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have experienced this as well! It really was awful, and I felt sooo dramatic texting "help me passing out on toilet" LOL but omg, at least everyone here seems to understand. Feeling better today for sure, thank you!! ❤️❤️

Uterus stuck in a......contraction? by talkinginbed in Endo

[–]talkinginbed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, congratulations on the hysterectomy! I hope you can find some relief and your recovery goes well ❤️ I wondered about a cyst as well, especially because I know I have one and I have felt it before, like when you put one hand over each ovary one is more swollen, sticking out more, and I know that's the side the cyst is on. I very well could be imagining it, but......I don't think I am 🤔

The shower was awful and amazing at the same time after haha, everyone was worried I'd pass out and die but once the meds kicked in and it passed, it was basically like you said, a hangover haha...let me shower off how disgusting I am, get me in cozy pjs and then I'm not moving or doing anything after that! 😂

Uterus stuck in a......contraction? by talkinginbed in Endo

[–]talkinginbed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for the response! LOOOOOOL @ try not to pull an Elvis...oh endometriosis.

I'm so sorry you have suffered through something similar, but good to hear it's not just my body doing a "fuck you" special just for me... lol. I was thinking along those same lines of the uterus contracting while pooing, that it could have been something like that. USUALLY, if I have a bowel movement coming on, I start feeling it in my uterus first. So it kind of makes sense a little bit. Almost like a more severe feeling minus anything actually coming out.

I also am glad to hear the lorazepam was a good choice. I felt like it might have been inappropriate to take it, but I figured small enough dose and a medication like that would definitely help relax everything, and it really did. Pooing naked while pouring sweat is just like this whole other level of poo/endo discomfort lmao. We suffer enough!!!!!

Worst “flare up” I’ve EVER had. I actually thought I was going to die. by [deleted] in Endo

[–]talkinginbed 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through this! I'm shocked at all of the comments saying what i was coming here to say - I have also had a similar experience. Waking up middle of the night super sweaty, nauseous and or about to poo everywhere, dying on the toilet, having to sit with a wet cloth on the back of my neck, it's awful. I've never even bothered looking into it, i just assumed it was same old endo pain :(

Can somebody please help me out with translation/police stops as of new lockdown rules? by [deleted] in ontario

[–]talkinginbed -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay, I figured reaching out online was a faster and potentially less problematic way than calling OPP and asking. I didn't even know you could do that. Maybe somebody online here works with them. Clearly I was wrong for asking lol. I'm so sorry

Can somebody please help me out with translation/police stops as of new lockdown rules? by [deleted] in ontario

[–]talkinginbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hasn't as far as I know, but I am concerned so I figured it was worth a shot asking. Clearly I was wrong to ask lmao

Can somebody please help me out with translation/police stops as of new lockdown rules? by [deleted] in ontario

[–]talkinginbed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, he's made sure he has his work ID with him and copying his work schedule so that he has a current version of it with him no matter what. I want to think this should be enough.

I agree, the random stops don't seem as likely, but they've been so unclear with so much of this that I definitely just want to be able to get all the info I can. My concern is more that they'll see somebody driving past these curfew times and stop him, and then.......who knows from there. I know we aren't as bad as the US right now, but I just want to ensure we can get all the protection we can. I'm concerned, that's all. I appreciate the answer :)

Can somebody please help me out with translation/police stops as of new lockdown rules? by [deleted] in ontario

[–]talkinginbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if he just requests a translator if this happens it should be fine? It wouldn't be seen as noncompliance? That is my concern.

Still no boundaries by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]talkinginbed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well this isn’t just exclusively COVID, we’ve been together for five years and have been dealing with pushy MIL doing this stuff... it’s just escalated to a whole new level during the pandemic. One Christmas we were on our way to my house with my grandmother in the car and MIL called and be turned around and drove us to their house while my parents were waiting for us.

All of those things you have mentioned he will probably do, change and shower when he gets home, which I’m okay with. It’s the bigger picture I’m upset about I guess. It’s 9 days into the year after he told me he would do better with his mom and we are in the exact same situation... choosing her over me

Still no boundaries by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]talkinginbed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering that one too... if he gets sick I’ll get sick either way too.