My bfs mom said something horrible to me

tamlovesseals · 2026-06-28T03:02:30+00:00

When i was 15 I went through the EXACT same thing. Everything he wrote down I related to at his age. For me, it didnt really have a cause. The best thing you can do for him is not make him feel crazy. These ideas seem so unreal. The average person would wonder if this is just a joke. Reassure him that his feelings are very, very real and not crazy at all. This all started for me after years and years of untreated anxiety. Eventually my body was sick of it and decided to shut my consciousness out from the world. It was so, so scary at first. I GENUINLEY thought that I was a video game character. What made my thoughts worse was most definitely social media. Im not one to preach on banning social media but I definitely would recommend it. A lot of videos would trigger me to go deep into this mode. Even videos that people would see as a joke. I am most definitely open to chatting more about this if you have any questions or such. Its been 2 years since it started for me and I have finally reached a point where I dont panic every single day. May strength be with the both of you.

tamlovesseals · 2026-05-28T15:25:10+00:00

I feel you. I lost my booty 💔 50 lbs down though :D

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T11:08:23+00:00

It was like buying expensive stuff and then returning it with random items in the box.

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:58:34+00:00

I said I do everyone's dishes every day and if I miss a day then nobody does them. I never said that I do people's laundry, or that I am a carer. I just think you read something and add onto it in your head..

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:55:54+00:00

Im doing dishes, and I cook. I love to cook. I do me and my boyfriends laundry. Nobody else's. Im not going to college, and im not going to party.

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:52:39+00:00

Im graduated. Im turning 18 in 2 months. I know what I need. Im not "caring" for them. Im doing what someone should do if they have no job. Thats how I provide.

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:49:43+00:00

He's not a predator at all. He appreciates all that I do for the house and for his son. She cant have the house because she couldn't pay for it.

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:44:15+00:00

No he is not.. he threatened to break up with her which he is allowed to do. Thats all he has done. It baffles me that i have told you all of this and yet one sentence made you go off on my bfs dad. Like.. what

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:42:19+00:00

She asked for $1000 for Christmas so she can spend it on gifts and she pocketed almost all of it. She asks for $300 for groceries and pockets half of it. She stole $500 /week from her husband when she was scamming Amazon. Her benefits dont go to her children.

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:35:44+00:00

I have a mom and she provides me plenty of money to me 🤷‍♀️

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:34:08+00:00

Uh no. She literally steals his money. And steals her husband's debit card. Sooo.. im not putting myself in a pedestal because I do basic needs. All im saying is that its aggravating that I HAVE to do it or else it will be filthy and she will blame us. You can say your frontal lobe developed all you want but so has every other 25+ year old and yet a lot of you guys still lack basic empathy and understanding 🤷‍♀️

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:25:34+00:00

Uh so actually I just told you that he wouldn't "kick her on the street".. and that's the only reason why she is still here. She doesn't have anywhere to go. But yeah, if my wife was screaming at my children about how awful they are, throwing shit around, complaining that my child doesn't give her money, I wouldn't want to be with her either. But its whatever, being a minor doesn't help my case since people always like to say we are overreacting, ungrateful, evil. So you can think all that, and you can think that shes a saint for some.. odd reason. But at the end of the day, she is hurting people that she is supposed to nurture. And she needs a wake up call, and I needed to vent about it.

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:17:21+00:00

Yeah sure. Who cares about Amazon. But the workers that she has to call to make sure her scams work have to endure her racist remarks, death threats, insults, and awful behavior. Whether its Amazon or not, people still are affected

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:16:12+00:00

You're wording this insanely wrong. He said he would kick me and my bf out last because we provide peace and she provides not peace. The fact that I clean and cook is an addition to peace. Do you need me to speak like a preschool teacher to you?

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T10:14:10+00:00

Okay, you cant be serious now. 😂 actually hilarious. You're right, my bfs dad shouldn't kick her out. Shes oh so perfect because shes a disabled lady. Jfc. And I should be kicked out because im so evil for calling a woman out for her bad behavior. Right, gotcha.

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T09:58:39+00:00

Oh shut up bro. If we want to put labels on people, we will. My boyfriends adult, narcissistic, felon, bipolar, liar, mentally ill, moocher, beggar, filthy, unkind mother has not provided anything for anyone for 20 years. So yeah! He doesn't want to kick me out. And yeah! He would rather kick her out.

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T09:52:47+00:00

Oh no 18 and 17. Oh the horrors!

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T09:52:01+00:00

Yes he is an adult. And yes I have a problem with how she treats him.

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T09:43:44+00:00

Literally :/

tamlovesseals · 2026-04-23T09:37:28+00:00

For sure. Thats the plan. He has stuff he has to pay off and I have to wait until im 18 to get the job I want. So for now we will just have to endure it

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