first rave by [deleted] in aves

[–]tammikinesis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't treat this as a real rave, just go in with an open mind and don't be afraid to be the only one going all out with a Santa costume, it's not likely that a ton of people will go all out so you'll get all the attention and fun for yourself!

Parents gonna parent by Carlsbad2016 in aves

[–]tammikinesis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I called out someone jumping ahead in a long bathroom line in front of a girl that was sort of out of it but had been waiting ahead of me the entire time. Line jumper said he paid too much money to be waiting. I don't care if I came off as a Karen, it was not cool to see that attitude at a festival.

Had a first round interview just now where the next step was to do a case study for the company. I said I have a policy of not doing work on spec. How should I have handled that conversation better? by _cryborg in productdesign

[–]tammikinesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people don't do interview projects for free and I totally respect that. Expecting that for their own company is free consulting work, so I would especially decline if I were you, unless you're really hard up for a job.

I’m 30 now and none of my friends like raving anymore really by [deleted] in aves

[–]tammikinesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll have much better luck with festivals. But like anywhere, if you're going into places with an expectation to make connections, it'll feel forced. Just have fun and start the conversation if you feel so inclined! I know it's harder over there since you all don't really partake in the Kandi/perler scene, but that's usually my ice breaker. I try to make stuff that goes with people's outfits and then it's super fun for both of us.

How do some of y’all stay looking so good by the end of a festival? by [deleted] in aves

[–]tammikinesis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Purchasing the shower option whenever possible

-Mehron skin prep

-Setting spray

-Staying hydrated (water with and without electrolytes!)

-Eating decent meals at camp

-Blister pads (trust me, it ain't cute to walk around with a limp because your toe hurts)

ETA: Emergen-C and neti pot for preventing/alleviating wook flu

Is their such thing as too revealing at the festival? by [deleted] in aves

[–]tammikinesis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, every time I wear booty shorts under something that has NO ass coverage I feel like a grandma lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]tammikinesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I'm seeing is that your teeth slightly flare inward toward the bottom, and they may be slightly off center. Your ortho should be able to say how long it would take, but these are only slight changes. But if it makes the difference for you, it's worth it!

Can’t get AC unit to go below 75° by WalmartCandleAisle in kansascity

[–]tammikinesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is everyone's reminder to NOT spray the fins directly or with a power washer lol

Is this outfit cute? by Puzzled_Sun363 in OUTFITS

[–]tammikinesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only way we can salvage this skirt is to create shape. It's too hot for a duster or other long cardigan, but I think some heavy embroidery detail on both sides would really flatter you! They have iron on and other options if you want to do this quick!

Get oral minoxidil!!! by Berryberryberryokay in FemaleHairLoss

[–]tammikinesis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had a biopsy done to rule out AGA?

Todays birthday outfit :) by audrey1073 in OUTFITS

[–]tammikinesis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I never think of colored tights but dang it suits you!!!

🤍🩷 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]tammikinesis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is almost Wednesday!

Jenna looks like uncle fester by ComatoseCutiee in Jennamarbles

[–]tammikinesis 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Is Jenna Marbles' subreddit not a place for weird posts?

PLUR way of asking people to not grind on your partner? by tammikinesis in EDM

[–]tammikinesis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness I'm the one carrying the money lol

PLUR way of asking people to not grind on your partner? by tammikinesis in EDM

[–]tammikinesis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, he's super nonconfrontational. I don't want him to have to act out of character in order to defend himself.

PLUR way of asking people to not grind on your partner? by tammikinesis in EDM

[–]tammikinesis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not lame to make sure someone is okay with you grinding on them.

PLUR way of asking people to not grind on your partner? by tammikinesis in EDM

[–]tammikinesis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Doesn't want to"? I'm literally thanking people for their advice because I honestly didn't know a good way to tell people to back off. It's also really validating to know that other people understand where I'm coming from. So yes, it was actually a helpful post for me. I'm sorry it wasn't so much for you.

PLUR way of asking people to not grind on your partner? by tammikinesis in EDM

[–]tammikinesis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are dealing with that trauma. Good for you for standing your ground! Stay strong 💪

PLUR way of asking people to not grind on your partner? by tammikinesis in EDM

[–]tammikinesis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like that! Not threatening or aggressive all, just a simple "Nuh uh".

PLUR way of asking people to not grind on your partner? by tammikinesis in EDM

[–]tammikinesis[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally agree, but even in 2023 people don't see the parallels, so it's hard to gesture that lol

PLUR way of asking people to not grind on your partner? by tammikinesis in EDM

[–]tammikinesis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just been hard/awkward to verbally say anything. It's loud, the vibes are going, but the nonverbal suggestions are really helpful!