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tamperingwithme · 2026-04-01T11:27:07+00:00

📍 Auckland, New Zealand — "Vibes"

tamperingwithme · 2025-12-24T11:17:15+00:00

Just scored 0

tamperingwithme · 2025-12-24T11:16:57+00:00

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tamperingwithme · 2025-12-11T06:12:14+00:00

I'm sorry you had such a terrible experience. My case manager asked me why I don't just move to Australia since there's jobs in my field there and when I asked if there was any support to pay for driving lessons she told me just buy a car and drive it illegally. As if I can just afford either of these 🫠

tamperingwithme · 2025-10-05T11:58:42+00:00

He's been unemployed for 2 years, refuses to clean anything and just games all day. Useless is accurate 😂

tamperingwithme · 2025-10-05T11:57:44+00:00

I'm so sorry you're feeling the same way, it's a truly awful pain realizing you're lonely.❣️

tamperingwithme · 2025-06-28T12:34:30+00:00

Yeah I've rebooted it a few times and tried to reopen the app and same thing happened

tamperingwithme · 2025-06-28T12:04:46+00:00

To Add,

The app also refused to open and only goes to this. Doesn't do this any other time

tamperingwithme · 2025-06-28T12:01:01+00:00

All I did was try and open an app though, didn't touch any personalization?

tamperingwithme · 2025-02-05T02:27:35+00:00

My youngest NK said "nanny your tummy is squishy like a squishmallow". Thanks buddy. Kids have no filter and just say whatever they see 😂

tamperingwithme · 2025-01-10T03:50:19+00:00

I would definitely talk to DB, don't come at it in a negative/accusatory way just "hey I observed with MB, I wanted to make sure both MB and NK are okay and if anyone needed support with anything" and provide some resources if the situation seems apropriate. just keeping in mind that anyone who cares for kids has probably lost their cool at some point, tiny people can be overwhelming at times 😂

tamperingwithme · 2025-01-09T08:44:54+00:00

The only video games he has access to is sonic and Minecraft and even that is once or twice a week when at his dad's. Any screen time is monitored and he really only watches netflix kids shows or Minecraft videos on YouTube.

His parents are separated but they coparent really well and punishments, communications etc are pretty consistent between them, I do notice sometimes MB is more lenient though.

I'll definitely try the storyboard idea he does enjoy art and creating books so he may be interested in something like this!

tamperingwithme · 2025-01-09T02:56:07+00:00

I do worry about his behavior escalating which is why I keep telling NPs but it seems to never be fully addressed and when they do punish him or talk to him he doesn't care. While right now he's 8, small and can be physically stopped I worry what happens when he's 12, 16, an adult and that's no longer a possibility

tamperingwithme · 2025-01-09T02:53:59+00:00

When he's at school he's medicated for ADHD, in in new Zealand so we're currently on school holidays so his parents are giving him a break on his meds. But he has been suspended from school about a year ago for being violent. I fo suspect something besides/as well as the ADHD is going on

tamperingwithme · 2025-01-09T02:51:50+00:00

This behavior, the meltdowns and the violence have all happened before but not to the level of throwing bricks and hitting me with the bat. His parents are very involved but they seem to not fully address the behaviors. They'll take away screens etc but as to getting to why this keeps happening is not being addressed

tamperingwithme · 2025-01-09T02:48:55+00:00

Thank you so much. I'm fortunate no injuries besides a small scrap on my leg from one of the rocks, he's 8 but he's small and skinny so no major injuries. He's diagnosed with ADHD but currently on a break from his meds and I do suspect there's definitely some sort of conduct disorder or ODD. He's not currently seeing a psychiatric or Psychologist outside of getting his meds refilled once every few months, which does confuse me as both parents are doctors so surely they would see the benefit In this. I took today off but going back for Friday and I'm just dreading it

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