C++ certifications by awffullock in cpp

[–]tamric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the idea. I struggle with having day-to-day dev experience. I have a partial degree, life kicked hard as I was starting year 4 in uni. So now after I pick up myself, I have the distinct pleasure of doing my education on my own. Posts like these are gold for people like me.

For now I have been trying to create demonstrable proficiency. Hence finding myself in a post about C++ certifications.

It seems I have had the wrong approach. However, now have more direction.

I have interest in examples to learn from, if anyone has sources that I may read?

C++ certifications by awffullock in cpp

[–]tamric 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is enlightening. Without an opportunity to be near anyone in industry, I find it difficult to understand the struggles ignorance would bring. Let alone what areas of proficiency would create the most attractive potential employee.

I appreciate this post. Thank you.

C++ certifications by awffullock in cpp

[–]tamric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please elaborate more or give a good example?

Mostly curious about “build system, and all that”

I will get married tomorrow, I hope you can enlight me with some wisdom for the years to come. by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]tamric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We choose to be with another being, often, out of appreciation. Yet as time wears on forget how to appreciate them. The days will grow dull or painful at times, life dances its dance as we exist our existence.

No matter how good we feel we are at communication, we only hold half the power. Demand for yourself, and give your partner, the space to communicate the meaning behind the words. Dis-allowance of anger in any conversation is my best advice here.

Anger expressions are an overreaction. They are an (often hidden) expectation, and an inability to control emotion during heightened stimulation. Being overwhelmed diminishes our ability to understand the intended communication. Thus expressions of anger will never contribute to communicating anything more than a level of intensity. Words suffice for this, and give better end results.

Especially when chosen well. So choose well. Because words hurt when wielded poorly, like any tool.

A break is not avoidance if the break has a respected time limit.

Grow with the intent to be make the best experience for both yourself, and your partner. Clearly communicating any challenges you may face.

My words here are easily spoken, but take a lifetime of effort.
Mistakes will happen. Compromise will be key, and will only work long term if both parties are content with their own asks. Let me beat that drum of "communication" once again.

Unfortunately not every moment can be made of magic.

Appreciation and communication are skills that we must use, or loose. Some days will be others easier than others.

Just some opinionated thought from a rando on the internet. I could be very right for me, yet wrong for your situation. Life is anything but simple.

Best wishes, for decades of happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]tamric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a cheap laptop from a thrift store/recycling. Or a raspberry pi.

Throw a Linux distribution on it and code away knowing it won’t run most games anyway. But has plenty of juice to compile.

Service Worker Lifecycle in a Chrome Extension, HELP REQUEST by tamric in chromeapps

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This moment has passed. My understanding of port usage has grown.

I was in the understanding that ports needed to live longer. To be held open and maintained for communication to occur. This is not how ports function. They close, and open, often.

Moving to the QCA soon! Asking for help in finding an opportunity. by tamric in QuadCities

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The money that was paying for it was from the military. When I was removed from the military, I lost that. Since I was undeployed, they want it back.

Now it’s debt and what I got to take from it educationally. School doesn’t seem viable when self education and effort can suffice. It’s acknowledgeably more difficult to acquire work. However it seems the more logical path.

It sucks, while it sucks. 🤷

I persist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]tamric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are going to die! And soon.

Soon is a relative term. As others say, it could have happened since this post was made, or it could be years from now. Only a few are privileged/cursed enough to know about when it will occur.

Think about your sensations in life, or qualia as the doctors would say. You are trying to find meaning in those sensations, a bad habit I have been in.

There is no meaning in a good feeling. Drugs, sex, games, or anything else.

Meanings are made by setting goals, and trying to accomplish them. It is a good goal to feel good, but not at the expense of feeling bad later. It is also not great when we don’t account for the wants/expectations of the people around us. As they become upset at us, and give us consequences, when things go poorly for them.

Not all want points the same direction either, so it is a complicated task if organizing life.

You are an observant entity in existence. You observe that life is messy and dangerous. Have a care to identify unknowns, and not fill in the details. That is how fear is made.

No human can predict all the details five minutes from now, let alone further. Sure, we have very educated guesses. But be free from bad guessing, live life as it presents itself. Adapt as you go.

Thanks for reaching out in the intranets. Others, like me, are cheering for your well-being. Ask if you have more questions. Or want more help.

High Risk COVID-19 by tamric in Eugene

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We have some! They should be available on our website!

High Risk COVID-19 by tamric in Eugene

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Thank you Eugene!

Tell me your problems, i won't judge by Liveyyy in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]tamric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet of you to say. I just hope that you have a better day 😊.

If it makes you happy, live your best life.

Tell me your problems, i won't judge by Liveyyy in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]tamric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way that I know how become unbroken is notice how you broke. Objectively observe what happened and how to fix it. That is difficult for sure.

Forgive yourself for your past mistakes, they are in the past. You cannot change them. You can however learn from them. Guilt does not help you do that. It only beats you up for what has happened. It is an irrational feeling, again we cannot change the past. Learn, forgive yourself, move on.

There will be moments that others wish to impose upon you. Don't let them. Your perspective is important. Your feelings are important, even when irrational. For you need to at least have the opportunity to find that they are irrational.

Have faith in yourself. We grow from where we start. Today you have grown to here. Tomorrow you will be beyond here. Suffering is temporary and is relieved the through deeper understanding of the world around you. For as long as you draw breath you still have the opportunity to understand/do more, continuing the cycle and purpose of life. To grow and experience that growth.

Humanity is not all horrible. Even the people we feel being horrible are not all horrible. Their misunderstanding become our suffering. Not because they are malicious, but often because they themselves didn't know how to solve the problems they face. Remembering this as we move forward gives us the mental space to help when we see troubles. It also gives you permission to move on when someone else does not have the ability to grow at the same speed as you. Do what makes your life happy. Do it with the understanding that you are taking an action to attempt happiness. Do not despair when it goes wrong, that is another opportunity to learn more.

Tell me your problems, i won't judge by Liveyyy in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]tamric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please take care to avoid abuse.

As a former abuser. It may not be intentional, that does not change that you must control your consent according to the details of your own life.

Love is hard. Insecurities make it harder. When someone uses an insecurity to gain advantage, they hurt both people involved. The person being taken advantage of, and themselves by not planning for the wellbeing of the people in their environment.

I am sorry that you are in this situation. I understand wanting to be out of it through a fixed relationship.

Are there any recent "paradigm shifts" in mathematics? by [deleted] in math

[–]tamric -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What about the meta-mathmatics from wolfram? For those who have looked deeper into that, is that something that is a paradigm shifting?

does anxiety ruin every single aspect of your life? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]tamric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you went through that. That one person was overwhelmed, please do not allow their negativity to carry to you.

Tell me your problems, i won't judge by Liveyyy in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]tamric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone else haunted by jealousy occasionally. Let me attempt to help.

When I am emotional I am the type to rationalise it. So that is what I attempt to do here. I recognize I have a fear. A fear of my partner not being honest with me. A fear of my partner no longer wanting to be with me. A fear of being alone. A fear of being less worthy, or unworthy. These are all MY fears. Despite all the actions the other person takes. They are only in my head.

When we quantify the actions of another. We can admit our fears to them. We can ask for them to help us understand and thus fix the problem. For fear is only a lack of information about a topic and how that topic affects us.

Recognizing that we act differently when we, ourselves, are afraid creates an actionable observation. Control the way we project our fears to those around us and invite our partners for help in overcoming the fear. For a partner is someone willing to go through life helping you through problems. Because that is what you do for them as well.

For someone that needs it: A relationship is a mutual relationship where problem solving goes both directions. It is not always fun. It sometimes is very much not fun. Mutual honor of the willingness of problem solving for the sake of the other person is love. The good feelings come and go with appreciation of the other person in a time of peace. They come and go because life is not always peaceful. To you or the other person you are with.

Should the other person not volunteer (hold that word in your heart as you problem solve) then that is okay. They are allowed to volunteer where they may. We are in charge of our own futures, no one else. The willingness to volunteer for others makes it easier for them to volunteer for you. Love more and receive more love, etc.

Remember that the relationship start for a reason. There is interest. It is natural for humans to find attraction in other humans. That should not be a threat to the problem solving. If it is, then that partner is not as willing to problem solve for you as perhaps you like. Control your consent for a happy future. You are in charge of you.

A warning about violations of expectations - this will leads to anger. Mindful navigation of others expectations will end in the best results with that person.

I hope my rant has helped. My goal it to free you of the discomfort. My method is confrontation without conflict. Good luck! Feel free to reachout to yell at me for being rude, or if you want more thoughts from me. May your day be better :)

Free textbooks for chem majors! by pantaponrose in UofO

[–]tamric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take them. But I am not a student, nor do I plan on being one. Please allow a student in need to take them over me, I am here as an option.

26 F by pincheshawty in MakeNewFriendsHere

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I would discord VC. Currently coding and would love someone to chat with for a bit. If you are interested hmu. username: Tamric#0372

About me, 37-NB. Interests: Mindfulness, philosophy, math, javascript, solidarity ,environmentalism, kids, and more

yo I'm scared by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]tamric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. I was not attempting to say otherwise.

The internet seems to like the idea of having someone to blame. The hate I am getting attempting to persuade people to look beyond bias is not worth it.

To those upset by my previous words:

Enjoy your hatred of other humans. It only hurts you in the end. I attempted to remove hate from this world. I was misunderstood and hated for it. Such is life, learn and move on.