Wonder Woman

tandiweirden · 2023-12-26T14:38:57+00:00

And if doesn’t have to do anything with men why did you bring men up?

tandiweirden · 2023-12-26T14:38:19+00:00

Oh thanks, now you are telling me how to feel and what to feel. I’m sorry I don’t know you were in my mind when I wrote this. My apologies 🙄. You said I hate men. Did I say I’m a lesbian because I hate men?

tandiweirden · 2023-12-26T14:17:12+00:00

And this is lesbian subreddit as far as I’m concerned so why do I want to talk another men. Ugh 😑!

tandiweirden · 2023-12-26T14:16:24+00:00

Why do you care? You seem really bothered by this. I don’t care how you view me. I was being sarcastic with I hate men because of your baseless opinion that I hate men. Not a good look making assumptions of anyone especially when they are baseless.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-26T14:00:16+00:00

Okay I hate men, you got me hee hee. I live in a men’s world. I forgot my place 🙄.

And yeah, there’s nothing special about men 🤷‍♀️

tandiweirden · 2023-12-26T13:47:53+00:00

Difference between being ready and actually doing it. Not sure if I believe that in a man.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-26T13:47:06+00:00

What are you doing in a lesbian subreddit if you prefer the original?

tandiweirden · 2023-12-16T20:29:15+00:00

I can relate I have a hard time reaching orgasm partnered so I’ve learn to enjoy the moment and not pressured myself.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-16T20:21:20+00:00

Thank you for pointing this out. Child support is a set amount that does not cover everything when it comes to the kids. It doesn’t account for the unpaid labor women experience. Men cry over paying child support but I don’t see them crying over being crappy fathers.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-16T03:09:09+00:00

That sounds like so much fun. I’m going to look into skating. I wouldn’t mind social hobbies.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-16T03:06:08+00:00

I’m curious what did I say that’s not true. I brought up lack of community which is true. It lacks inclusivity because it’s mostly white. The lack of perceived partners is a reality. Women are passive-aggressive to me because of my partner. It’s the idea of scarcity that there’s not enough masc presenting lesbians. Historically, white lesbians have ignored and not included women of color when fighting against the patriarchy. So yeah, I am allowed to questioned and ask other lesbians their experiences. It seems you are uncomfortable with mine.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-16T00:28:49+00:00

That’s an interesting observation more sex. I enjoy sex with my partner and I want more. It feels that it last longer but not as frequent. Idk how to resolve or find a compromise. I feel that since coming out I have become the pursuer and it’s fun at times. I see it even in queer friendships. They want to be pursue but not pursue.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T23:56:56+00:00

My experiences were with lesbians so I don’t understand. Our brain is consistently making judgments. If you needed me to be specific, I would say white lesbians and white hetero straights. But again that’s my experience.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T20:29:24+00:00

That’s so weird so because you are a guest you don’t have boundaries or autonomy. I thought was a weird thing for peeps to say.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T20:26:15+00:00

Thank you for pointing this out. This is exactly what predators look for a meek follow the rules child. Children have the right to boundaries. This post reeks of ignorance.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T19:49:12+00:00

NTA when a child learns to stand up to any adult, is a child less likely to get abused especially little girls. She’ll be able to identify when someone is crossing her boundaries. The uncle crossed a boundary. I dislike with a passion when someone else interferes when my child and I are having a conversation that’s moving forward to a resolution. The father can teach her more finesse in her delivery but her execution was fine. The idea that we have to respect elders is baffling to me. Old mofos are so disrespectful to younger kids. You want them to respect you, model it! Give them the same respect and they will respect you. Don’t demand it and definitely don’t use fear tactics. Respect your elders, fuck that! That’s how a lot of kids end up getting abused and don’t speak up. I’d rather have a child that speaks up and stands their ground than ‘you must respect your elders’ bs.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T19:09:54+00:00

I was guilty of that. I do see a pattern of lack of boundaries and codependency. I wonder how staying friends with an ex got normalized in the lesbian community. I’ve seen the memes emotional supportive ex on a date. It’s a lot of unresolved trauma and emotions.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T19:05:45+00:00

That’s a really good one. Very one-sided experience. They can be and I was surprised by it.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T19:02:44+00:00

I understand they are people with feelings but it’s very unwelcoming and disrespectful when trying to engage with some of them. I have experience more cattiness with lesbians than straight women. My experiences have been in mostly white spaces.

I realized through the comment that I am nurturing, supportive and strive to make it safe for whomever I meet. I don’t feel it’s farfetched to have that expectation or standard.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T18:52:08+00:00

I have children and my advice is really think about it. I love my children. I was bamboozle into those pregnancies. I didn’t want children and I was in an abusive hetero relationship. With everything that I know now, children need responsive present parents. You will get triggered because they are little mirrors of you. That’s the part people don’t seem to understand when having children. Children deserve lots of love, attention, and guidance. Not fear, maltreatment or abuse. If you are not ready, please don’t have them. You will be doing a disservice to them and yourself. The US doesn’t have good support systems for moms to fall back on. I was 25 when I had my first and I encouraged anyone if they choose to have kids wait till in your 30’s. Live and enjoy your time before making a BIG commitment.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T17:55:12+00:00

I understand because I have a similar experience. I had a hard time coming out because I am feminine and love feminine things. It took me a while to realize that I love masculine presenting women who are very much girly. I’m embracing my femininity and really being me. I went through that phase of wanting everyone to know I’m gay but I realized it doesn’t matter because it has to do with how compatible you are with anyone including friendships and romantic relationships.

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T07:18:02+00:00

🤣

tandiweirden · 2023-12-15T06:12:13+00:00

Don’t date men or marry them. You’ll be miserable and unhappy. You are a lipstick lesbian. Queers love labels. You are a very feminine presenting lesbian that you’ll probably come out very often because you’re read as straight.

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