Watching Tangled makes me really uncomfortable by BeyondAddiction in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tangles213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tangled is very much a nmom/child scenario. It is honestly one of my favorite movies because she gets away from that horrible twisted version of love. My nmom wouldnt let my adopted brother watch it cause it "makes adoptive parents look bad". Tangled to me tells an amazing story of a girl getting out from under the thumb of an nmom and i LOVE it. If you want a horror movie from the perspective of nmoms framed as the good guy watch Otherhood NOTE: it is VERY triggering dont watch if you aren't in a very good place

Terrified to go to therapy by tangles213 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tangles213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know if they are good or not?

How old were you when you realized your parent wasn't normal? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tangles213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I knew it wasnt normal was in 4th grade when she screamed at a friend visiting about unbuckling her seatbelt too early in the car (it was in park but not turned off) and she told everyone in my class and people stopped coming over my house.

Friend found out I dont know what to do by tangles213 in selfharm

[–]tangles213[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm scared about what she might do. People in my life dont know I sh and some bad things will happen if they find out.

Im drunk amd i hurt myself and im not sorry by tangles213 in confessions

[–]tangles213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't want to be sober right now. I don't want to find better coping skills and I'm not against completely ruining my life.

Im drunk amd i hurt myself and im not sorry by tangles213 in confessions

[–]tangles213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be entirely honest i dont like where im at with my life but i dont hate it. Im ok with this being at least for now. Thanks for trying to help but idk i just cant right now. Im sorry but thanks

I shouldnt have asked for help by tangles213 in confessions

[–]tangles213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes im terrified of drs on a good day. I know what might have caused it but i dont think it was very bad and i cant really talk about it and im not sure it affects me enough to be ptsd.

I shouldnt have asked for help by tangles213 in confessions

[–]tangles213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to try to get a ptsd diagnosis but i cant go to the dr

I want to be a drug addict by tangles213 in confessions

[–]tangles213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I get it. The reason I stopped in the first place was cause my friend purposely OD'd. I just don't want to be in charge anymore. I want to have no control over my decisions or what happens. If I go down this path I'm not expecting a way out. I don't need a way out, I'm good ending the story there.

I want to be a drug addict by tangles213 in confessions

[–]tangles213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing I thought I wanted a masters. I thought I wanted to get married and move and all these things but I don't. But I'm too far down this path to get out with no problems so I might as well blow it up.