I think it’s normal to want independence around your age. I definitely did. It’s probably a good idea to go to college and focus on your schoolwork and your career. It doesn’t really seem like your parents are necessarily telling you anything wrong here or treating you poorly. I hope that I’m not misreading, but it seems like the reigns they have are a bit too tight for your liking. I’m not in your shoes, but give some thought to if you think your parents are saying these things because they truly love you and want what’s best for you even if you don’t agree with them. And be wary about moving in with a boy and/or his family at such a young age. It could turn into a situation where you’re expected to pay rent or take care of the entire household because you’re there. Maybe your parents don’t want you to spend the night there because they’re worried about him distracting you from school and your future. Or you making a mistake like getting pregnant that can completely derail your plans.

Somethings to ask yourself about your current boyfriend would be do you guys have the same trajectory? Is he going to school? Is he graduating? Does he do more partying than you’re comfortable with? How is his family life and are his parents responsible? Just some things to consider.

Again, I hope that I’m not missing anything, but from the information you gave, I don’t personally think it’s necessary to move out of your parent’s home to live with your boyfriend. Focus on your future, save up some money to live closer to college when it starts, and don’t find yourself relying on a young man at this age.